I agree with PorcineGranny. Ron is a sniveling coward. He says he will kill someone over and over. Those that are going to do something DoIt, they don't talk about it especially to LE. He says this to make himself look macho. He can talk the talk but he can't walk the walk.
Like I said before, the being afraid of Ron is a mute point now. She is no longer under his control and has no reason to fear him physically any longer so now is the time for her to start talking. I've never felt that Ron was responsible for whatever happened to Haleigh but fully believe that Misty knows and it is someone with which Misty has or had associated with. Maybe it was an accident, who knows. The point I'm making is there no reason now for her to be afraid of Ron.
I pretty much think Ron is nothing but hot air anyway. I feel 100% that if he had something to do with Haleigh's disappearance he would have already broken down about it. He just strikes me as that type of person. If enough pressure were put on him, he would have cracked. I think he only pretends that he is a big bada$$ and it's nothing but a show.
I don't think Misty was ever controlled by him. I think drugs or booze controlled Misty's life. I think she is just stubborn and hard-headed enough (i.e. Casey Anthony) not to ever crack unless she is put into a situation where she trusts the person 199%. She may have been afraid that Ronald would hurt her when they were together if he found out what happened to Haleigh but there seriously is no reason for her to fear him now.
All of this is JMO.
that @ least supplies a motive.Misty a younger girl who won Ron's love over Amber, who had just had his son. Amber had to be pretty pissed, here she was with a new baby and no man. This young girl had her man. Do you think amber & her people would have tried to put Misty in her place by taking Haleigh? Thinking Misty would be in trouble with Ron & the law for the missing child? Maybe they all knew Misty left from time to time, after the kids were put to sleep.
Ron was just rolling through life girl to girl, getting them pregnant and on to the next.....I wonder what went on 1 year before haleigh went missing?
Amber was the girlfriend, caretaker of the kids while pregnant with Ron's baby?
My other theory is that there is a creep in that neighborhood that watched Misty's routine for awhile.....then made his move that night.
IMO when RC called MC in NY within hours of their divorce announcement to warn her DB was a plant, that told me RC really did not want or need any information MC may have.
In a young girls mind.....Misty the follower, a big girl now Ron's girlfriend and IN....I mean I'm in now with Ron......you know kind of shaking it around town, to the point of making Amber really mad, remember the text or email "I will get your baby too!"
Not that she wanted Amber's baby, but just to say Look at me (young girl mentality)haha
Probably through the satsuma area grapevine?
who wouldn't think that.....DB working with a search group, now misty's best friend, doing and selling drugs together.....that shows you how misty would trust anyone, Ron knows that about her and tries to protect her....maybe himself
DB looks like an informant to me, I would have been very leary of any instant buddy, buddy person!
the lazy approach ron has had to the search for his daughter is very, very odd. I would be insane if my child, grandchild, sister's, friends or neighbors children were missing. I would hunt every minuite of every day to find out whatever I could.....like a madwoman I would be!
I don't think either of them know what happened to her, maybe they have a hindsight sort of view about what could & probably did happen to her, but they can't fathom the reality so they just stay stoned?
Probably through the satsuma area grapevine?
who wouldn't think that.....DB working with a search group, now misty's best friend, doing and selling drugs together.....that shows you how misty would trust anyone, Ron knows that about her and tries to protect her....maybe himself
DB looks like an informant to me, I would have been very leary of any instant buddy, buddy person!
the lazy approach ron has had to the search for his daughter is very, very odd. I would be insane if my child, grandchild, sister's, friends or neighbors children were missing. I would hunt every minuite of every day to find out whatever I could.....like a madwoman I would be!
I don't think either of them know what happened to her, maybe they have a hindsight sort of view about what could & probably did happen to her, but they can't fathom the reality so they just stay stoned?
whovillebaby, I find your post very interesting. Especially your choice of words "The lazy approach ron has had to the search for his daughter..."
On the surface his approach may appear lazy, but IMHO, I consider his lack of searching is because Ron does not want his daughter (or her body) found. If she or her body is found he may have a lot of explaining to do for any evidence that may be found with her remains. He knows this and wants to stay as far away from the possibility of anyone discovering his missing daughter. We've seen this behavior before with Scott Peterson and other cases where relatives of the victim had a role in the disappearance of the victim. JMO
Duh. I forgot DB was actually in the search. Yeah I hear you about how you would search and I feel the same.
To stay on topic here... I just don't think MC is scared of RC because no matter how many times they seperated she just kept coming back. I think she is scared of the death penalty and I stand by that especially now since she is acting like 20 years is an eye-blink.
she isn't scared, she loves him and wants to be with him. They were still hanging out together. Someone made the point of her getting a tattoo after the divorce....who does that?
You don't see my EX-husbands name tattooed on me LOL and we are still friends.
she would be with him right now if she could, but he bargains her to his wishes.....I think he likes the chase!
Everyone is suspicious of everyone..........but they were not suspicious of the undercover cop, DB? well I think Tommy said he was.....anyways not enough to not sell, buy or do drugs, make a buck or whatever?
That's what makes me think they (especially Misty) let too many shifty people into their lives and the lives of those kids.
Pay attention people, there are tons of freaks in this world!
WATCH YOUR KIDS
thanks!
We've all seen the reports where Crystal lived in fear of Ron, & I've read a little of the same about Amber. I believe those reports. But, Misty is different than those women. GGS even admitted that Misty is almost impossible to reach. She puts up some kind of barrier. I think this is how she dealt with Ron-just zoned out, & then put it past her. I think Misty being this way, probably frustrated the he** out of Ron. Once when he beat her, she left. He went to get her, but she refused to see him-instead, she partied it up with another man. Once when he beat her, she called her family, & they rushed to her rescue-which caused a huge drama filled family fight. So, where Marie said that they barely saw Crystal for years, Misty clung to her family & friends. Where Crystal said that Ron wouldn't let her drive, Misty drove a lot & even picked up Haleigh from school. So, even though Ron supposedly had the only house key, it's believable that Misty came & went anyway-maybe by propping the door open for reentry. No, I don't think Misty's the beat down type, & no I don't think she's scared of Ronald-but I do think Ronald's frustration with her, played a big part in this.