Nobody wants to believe a mother could kill her child.
But, at best, JJ was awakened from sleep and a warm bed that was IN Lori Vallow's room to be intentionally killed in a cruel and sadistic manner so Lori could run off to wed in Hawaii - unencumbered with JJ's social security money to spend ONLY on herself and her new husband.
Whether or not, Lori hands-on participated, in my opinion, there is NO acceptable justification or rationalization for Lori even allowing this to happen.
My own opinion.