Neither you nor
@carbuff are wrong in this. Yes, she wasn't in marathon shape, but she was moving the direction of wanting to be more active and fit. She wasn't a participant but a volunteer in the Sept 14, 2019 Rexburg Rescue Run (see attached ETA: They've removed the facebook gallery of photos... but I have them and will post), but then wanted to participate in the Oct 26 Run for A Refugee 5K. I think this shows that she wanted to be more fit and active.
Snipped for focus.
I’m sorry to say this, but perhaps her wanting to be more fit and active came after she realized her husband was slipping away. Everything seemed to be wonderful in her life, but she missed the biggest piece: her marriage. So many people get wrapped up in life, children, church, work, and they forget about the person who they are married to. The spouse becomes a fixture in the house. Always there. Never complaining. Not speaking. By the time she realized his thoughts were elsewhere, it was too late. She didn’t want to quit the book business, he did. He was ready for a new challenge, maybe a different direction for his prepper teachings. Maybe they made enough from the business, and he wanted to coast for awhile. Whatever happened, it happened while they were not communicating well as a couple. Or not communicating at all. Getting fit wasn’t the answer. Growing together, planning together, moving forward together should have been the answer. Instead, they grew apart. Their goals became different. Like so many other couples. Instead of divorce, she died. Under strange circumstances. Now, that’s the real tragedy. And there is one hub in the wheel. One main player. Let’s just hope this ends soon. With no more dead bodies.