The fact is 99% of the time something is repeated the story changes, people embelish even build on it to make it suit their needs. We all learn this young in school with a games the teacher often had you play, by getting in a circle and each whispering a phrase to the next. By the time it got to the end of the circle it was completely changed! This was suppose to teach you an important lesson about repeating things...
The LE told SB try to keep business as usually! This is why JW is still working. He is simple doing what the LE told him to do.
Going to SIU has nothing to do with train schedule my son went to school not far from there, he has never set foot on a train, nor could he even tell you where to get information for a train. How many years ago was that he went to SIU???
The sister posted that JW had not retained a lawyer that she had only asked a friend that is a lawyer for advice. SB is not the only lawyer JW would know specially since she has worked in a law office.
SB is open for interviews the problem is getting the media even interested in this. At the time with all the BP oil spill going on that seems all the media interested it.
BTW I have JW cell phone number too not that I have ever called it or even cared to. My kids also have all my close girl friends cell numbers as a way to contact me if needed.
I also don't have my kids as friends on my FB either, and find nothing odd at all about that. I keep my family and personal life very separate from my public. I even preach to my friends how NUTS it is to post your life and kids on public pages. Real names, phone numbers that is crazy there are too many preditors out there and the net is a feeding frezy for it. Like I always tell people don't act like a victim, maybe you won't ever be a victim.
It is easy to sit here not emotionally connected and say he should have done this or that. But honestly, unless your have dealt personally with the loss of a "life partner" you have no clues what it is like. I have, and it is unlike any other loss you can experience, because part of yourself is lost too. It is the most horrid pain I have ever had to go through.
I am a extremely strong person, and hoestly for the first 30 days I was worthless to anyone!! I couldn't deal with the simplest of task. Much less could I have been able to take over task that my partner has always taken care of, like SB has had to do. Caring for the kids, shopping for food, cooking food, getting kids to their needed appointment, making sure they had cloths to ware daily. Paying the bills. Plus keeping the business going, seeing client, talking to LE and others. In a days time he went from doing none of these things to having to deal with everything. BB literly took care of everything for SB.
You guys all read about these cases every day you have a good idea of how things should be handled, what should be done. Can you remember back to a point when you had no idea what all was involved in dealing with a case such as this and how dumb founded you must have felt..
My worst fault is when I am faced with TOO MUCH and I am so over whelmed I don't know where to start.. I don't nothing
not a fault I am proud to share.
Point being, not everyone deals with situations the same, specially grief, even though nothing is fact yet, you still go through a form of grief.
