2Hope4
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I tried an experiment today. I met two men that I've never seen before. I purposefully held a conversation and mentally tried to remember every detail I could. Guess what? I know they had on ball caps, both were heavy weight, one had on shorts, can't remember what the other had on. I can't remember what color clothing either had, shoes, and even though I looked in their eyes while talking, I don't know their eye color.
So, then started thinking, how good is my memory from months ago. Mom died Easter Sunday. Very `traumatic time. I've tried to remember her doctors, or any of the nurses. I have faint memories of some of them, like there was a woman doctor, numerous males, yet, even the last doc, I can't remember his name, nor what he looks like.
Sooo, I'm wondering how people are able to remember such details. I thought maybe at first that stress may make you remember more. I really hated Mom's last doc, the one who IMO killed her. So I thought I remembered everything about that dufus.....but....blank now!
If someone showed me lots of different noses to pick from, lots of face shapes, etc...I'm sure my mind would just explode. Kudos to anyone that can remember all these details!!!!
While reading through today's posts, another thought popped. What if the cap was dropped during the killing of the girls. What if police that? That would give DNA, right? Maybe even some hairs in it. Yet having that cap wouldn't identify an unknown person by itself. I was thinking of a crime show that use to say in every crime scene, the perp brings something in, and takes something out. Wonder what this perp left there?? Wonder what he took out??
I'm hoping all those tips aren't going to confuse the investigation....I know there's been cases that the perp's name was given early in the investigation, but was lost or somehow disregarded. Many years later when the case is being looked at again, tips followed up on, etc, new eyes found the tip that solved the case!
So, then started thinking, how good is my memory from months ago. Mom died Easter Sunday. Very `traumatic time. I've tried to remember her doctors, or any of the nurses. I have faint memories of some of them, like there was a woman doctor, numerous males, yet, even the last doc, I can't remember his name, nor what he looks like.
Sooo, I'm wondering how people are able to remember such details. I thought maybe at first that stress may make you remember more. I really hated Mom's last doc, the one who IMO killed her. So I thought I remembered everything about that dufus.....but....blank now!
If someone showed me lots of different noses to pick from, lots of face shapes, etc...I'm sure my mind would just explode. Kudos to anyone that can remember all these details!!!!
While reading through today's posts, another thought popped. What if the cap was dropped during the killing of the girls. What if police that? That would give DNA, right? Maybe even some hairs in it. Yet having that cap wouldn't identify an unknown person by itself. I was thinking of a crime show that use to say in every crime scene, the perp brings something in, and takes something out. Wonder what this perp left there?? Wonder what he took out??
I'm hoping all those tips aren't going to confuse the investigation....I know there's been cases that the perp's name was given early in the investigation, but was lost or somehow disregarded. Many years later when the case is being looked at again, tips followed up on, etc, new eyes found the tip that solved the case!