laniefi
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This?
This absolutely floors me.
WOW...I know we all deal with grief differently but....:furious::furious::furious::furious:
This?
This absolutely floors me.
LADYLUB
don't feel bad, many of us are confused also.
This is a very strange case of living in so many places
and how people knew each other.
I would like to know if their is a jail connection between some.
It was stated that granpa RSO and this creep spent time in jail together.
But I don't have the link.
If I'm not mistaken on Nancy Grace she said that the Ali had presents waiting on her to open under the tree, still wrapped. 6 children? wow, why does CPS not step in and do something before its too late?
I can't help myself from forming an opinion when I see a news headline reading what he communicated to press, "Father of slain girl says he's overcome with grief" -then see FB basic information saying:
About me: "i have 2 great girls"
Activities: "Taking Care of Daughters" (listed as only activity)
Really? Don't you kinda have 3 daughters, man? You taking good care of em, are ya?
That's all I have to say about that. It just gets my goat big time.
Since you raised the question, I also wonder if anyone had been abusing gpa's medications all along, or at least when he became too ill to have any control. Also, the medications Aliahna might have been prescribed for ADHD, post traumatic stress, and oppositional defiance are commonly abused medications.
Maybe when gpa died and there was no more prescription narcotic coming in, "someone" became ill and dysfunctional from withdrawals, KWIM? Although Ali could have kept a flow of other meds coming in, none of her diagnoses seem to merit narcotics. Just questions.
Missy G
JMOO, I don't think that Ali's mom thought anything about RSO's.
She had a father that was one. I'm sure the story was HIS way.
Maybe she was groomed in incest or that RSO's were ok.
Like it is a family thing and no one cared.
JMO, is mom herself into stuff we would rather not know about?
Why her 3 little girls? and NOT her step children? living for a week with this creep?
I know people who think I'm crazy for being on the watch dog alert for my grandchildren.
Some people never take anything as serious as they should.
Some people like to pawn their kids on others so they can have their own time.
Around here a mother left her children at the mall for 12 hours! Unfed and no coats!
I guess malls are babysitters now for 5 and 9 year olds..........
all is JMOO
When Plumadore first moved to Northway, he had lived with residents who were not connected to the Lemmons. When the two men met, they hit it off. Lemmon asked Plumadore if he could cook and was clean, and Plumadore moved in.
http://www.journalgazette.net/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20111228/LOCAL07/312289939
I've seen it go both ways too, but not this fast. Our neighbors, when I was a child lost their 14 month old to SIDS. He was fine when they put him to bed, dead when they woke up. They kept a few of his things, but after about a month, they started packing up his things, and sending them to other family, and some went to Goodwill. They used his favorite toys as permanent fixtures though, and his photos were the last things to come off the walls at the old house, and the first things to go on the walls at the new house. On the flip side, when my cousin died of the same thing at four months old, his parents kept his room as a shrine. Nothing changed, they even still go in and switch on the monitor at night, otherwise his mother has nightmares that he is still there, and crying and they can't hear him. I know that this is a horribly hurtful thing, and terrible, and maybe they are thinking that with as often as they move, her things will be safer in storage, but it is still way too soon, IMO. But I'm not living it, I admit that.
It's just one of those things that makes you go "THEY DID WHAT?"
snipped from above link
"Around the corner at the trailer where Lemmon had lived with her mother and sisters, boxes were piled high on the back of a pickup truck. A family friend, who said the family wished not to be contacted, said they were cleaning up their home, not moving out."
oh really? I hope they seize those boxes before they are forever gone.What in the world could be so important that it has to be cleaned up when you are about to LAY YOUR BABY TO REST FOREVER !!!!
Missy G
JMOO, I don't think that Ali's mom thought anything about RSO's.
She had a father that was one. I'm sure the story was HIS way.
Maybe she was groomed in incest or that RSO's were ok.
Like it is a family thing and no one cared.
JMO, is mom herself into stuff we would rather not know about?
Why her 3 little girls? and NOT her step children? living for a week with this creep?
I know people who think I'm crazy for being on the watch dog alert for my grandchildren.
Some people never take anything as serious as they should.
Some people like to pawn their kids on others so they can have their own time.
Around here a mother left her children at the mall for 12 hours! Unfed and no coats!
I guess malls are babysitters now for 5 and 9 year olds..........
all is JMOO
I read on MSN that grandpa said they were wrong about him.....I'm telling you guys, the way grandma was taking up for this man really struck me the wrong way...something is up with this family......
I hate to say this, but I have felt from the beginning of this sad saga that Aliahna might not have been a "wanted" child. Perhaps her mother found the multiple disabilities to be more than she could handle especially when TS seems to have her own health issues. I find myself using the expression "disposable children" a lot lately because there seems to be an epidemic of missing, exploited, murdered children who appear to be nuisances in their parents' lives. jmo
I believe he is speaking of Ali and his younger daughter.