Bessie I don't buy it, the facts are to thick in my mind, I think this was a date of some kind, in a way.. If she was at her parents all day, then she would have eaten there, no laundry mat of my knowledge is open at these hours, I don't know if they have 24hour laundry mats, but I don't think that has been proven either.. So No point in having a guy come over with food and beer at 11pm at night she would have been dog tired and already have eaten.. she met this guy some where, she didn't just go straight home and if she did this was a pre set meeting.
That or this guy was a common guest at here home. I just don't see it. a guy waiting for her for hours and with bag of food and beer and cracking jokes so he can go inside her home. .. At those hours of night its hard to picture that. It just doesn't happen if she just did laundry you tell those folks to come back tommarrow
I think it was a date of sorts, too, oldwindow, just not the conventional "dinner and a movie", as I said before. From what we know, this was a more casual meeting.
According to the information released by the Indianapolis PD cold case detectives, CVH visited her grandmother in the hospital with her father that evening. She drove her father home after 10:00 P.M. He tried to convince her to stay the night, but she told him she had to go home to wash her uniform for work the next day. (There is more than likely a laundry room at the apartment complex.) I have a hunch the uniform story was an excuse to leave. JMO, but I think she was reluctant to tell her dad she had a late "date" because she knew he'd disapprove. That's why some of us are curious to know if the uniform was found soiled. If so, then maybe the story was true. She really was going home to wash her uniform, and the meeting was not pre-planned. But if a clean uniform was hanging in the closet, then the hunch probably is correct. She did have plans to meet a guy, and the uniform was an excuse.
There's also the possibility both are true. She was meeting someone, and she had to wash. However, there is no report that neighbors heard anyone leaving the apartment until after the attack. In other words, no one was going back and forth to the laundry room.
As for when she had last eaten and her whereabouts that day, we don't have those answers, or any info at all, really. The timeline starts that evening.
My feeling is that she made plans to meet the person at her apartment to "hang out" that night. Have a couple of beers, maybe even smoke a little pot, and listen to music or watch TV. Or, perhaps the plan was to reminisce and get caught up, if the guy was someone from the past.
I don't think he would have been waiting hours, by the way. But since the two entered together, I think he arrived a little ahead of Carmen, and was in the parking lot when she pulled up.
JMO
ETA: In another post you mention they might have been friends in a "talking issues" kind of way. I wonder if he used that as a ruse to get together at her apartment. Something like: "Hey, Carmen. I have to solve a dilemma, and I'm stumped. I'd really like to get your input. Care to do a little late night brainstorming? I'll buy the beer."