@jeena
It struck me from the first time seeing these pictures, of SA with Chloe, that he holds her in a most unusual & awkward manner. Looks neither safe nor comfortable for the baby.
2 likely reasons;
1) He is
not accustomed to holding her, or any other young child. The photos don’t look natural snaps but posed as he beams at her, knowing a photo is being taken.
2) He is
physically unable to hold her in a more natural/comfortable/safe position, due to his great bulk.
Most of us would naturally hold a child of this age, on our hip ( 80% of us on our
left hip, regardless of our ‘handedness’ ) which necessitates the child having her legs in front & behind the adult’s body.
This is a safe, comfortable, natural way to hold a toddler. The adult has firm hold of the child & child is also able to grip onto the adult.
The adult’s posture adapts naturally to compensate for the change in centre of gravity & give greater stability to the duo.
This leaves one adult arm free to continue doing the laundry, shopping, hoovering, all the while carrying the toddler securely & safely.....something any one of us familiar with caring for young children innately knows/does.
We do it
so naturally that we don’t even realise we are doing it.
( Goodness, I imagine we’ve all seen young girls of 8..9..10 carrying a younger sibling in this fashion, and sometimes smiled to ourselves.
Chimps & other apes do it too
Lateralisation of Infant Holding in Chimpanzees: New Data Do Not Confirm Previous Findings on JSTOR )
If SA was holding Chloe, away from his body, in the way we see in the photos above, she stood no chance of saving herself. Poor little mite.