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I don’t know if he was drinking, will never know, but I also don’t think it really matters at this point. He wasn’t fall down drunk. I do think if they thought he was legitimately impaired they would have taken the steps to get some kind of test. They actually did speak with him, they have more knowledge than anyone on sm about his abilities that day. I also get trying to find a “reason” he did this, sometimes it’s just a simple answer of, he was reckless and stupid.
I’m not really getting this, “drinking around small kids is trendy” I’m 50. My parents grew up in an era where drinking and smoking was so very normal even when pregnant. Obviously that’s frowned upon now. If people are drinking to the point of impairment around their children and no other person is around to watch small kids, yes that’s irresponsible. But, it’s also ok to have one drink with a dinner on a cruise ship or in your home or even at a restaurant. There are levels of irresponsibility. I think most parents are pretty responsible and are not getting sloshed while watching their kids. Are there ones that do that? Sure, but it’s not the “trendy” thing to do. People joke about needing a glass of wine after a long day with the kids, it doesn’t mean they are out of control, it’s just being funny.
I also think you are reading to much into the, they told him not to take a test. They are both in the world of the law. Her being a lawyer, him an officer. It’s likely they went into that mode and went the, don’t take any kind of test, it can be spun. In my opinion, I think as a parent I would want him to take a test to prove he was not impaired, but I also can look at it from the other perspective and understand it. Doesn’t mean I agree, just that I get it.