IN -Terry and Darleen Anderson Murder, Mungo, 22 Oct 2005 - #1

[Rosco]

Rosco-First I want to send my heartfelt condolenses to you and your family. I can't imagine such a terrible thing happening. You've been wonderful with your efforts to solve this crime as have the rest of the group here. I'm praying for resolution and justice soon.

I've followed some of the other thread. While I do agree some of what "A" has written is a bit out there, we have to remember she is 20, and apparently a very young 20 at that. I'm not condoning her behavior, just pointing out a lot of 20 yr olds are still very immature and do and say some pretty stupid things. I can see a person that age only wanting to deal with friends, especially if this is the first time she's been semi independent.

I also don't think Anonymous is "A". "A"'s IP address is showing on the posts, while others aren't. I did think it was odd only hers was showing. Plus if she is frightened by any of these people perhaps she is simply to scared for her safety than to say anything.

jmho

Thanks Cubby for joining WS and your prayers. My family and I are working very hard and maybe someday it will pay off.

I agree chubby regarding the age. I can agree that 'some' actions can account for age and inexperience. Especially a country girl - not a big city girl who might/would have more opportunity of 'growing up' issues earlier in life. However, not all actions. The past 16months have been hell and back for my family AND not one time was my sister EVER wanting to be a part of me and our family. She cut ALL TIES the moment I/we walked off the property. I do not account AGE for that behavior. That was totally cold and calculated. She never wanted and expected to see me and her bother again. I was told that she was pissed off because 'X-WIVES" were at the house and funeral. X-WIVES.. that were paying respect... PAYING RESPECT.. how rude. One of the X-WIVES is my mother and she was HELPING me with my infant son SO I can HELP 'A" with all the arrangements. That type of behavior is not from age - that is from down right RUDE AND CRUDE feelings. Not from a person who has just found her mother with her head and face bashed in...and who's father is also beaten to his death. BUT she is concerned about 'X-WIVES' being at the house and funeral.

Sorry... the behavior I have seen and continue to see TO ME does not result from being 20yrs old. It is from a cold hearted person. IMO

All the behavior does not constitute murder.. Trust me - I understand that. I deal with that in my mind every since moment of my life now. She is my sister and that was my family and I miss her and miss my Dad so very much. I miss Darleen and our shopping trips.. and I miss the WHOLE picture - the whole house life there and everything. I could still have 'some' of it.. Her and the new baby coming... BUT she chose to do everything alone.. SHE CHOSE THAT ROAD.. and not by age.. by greed and a cold heart.


Yea - maybe 'Anon' is really someone who might know something. Just looked close to the wording on other posts..
IMO

Thanks again Cubby...

 

[Dark Knight]

Police got a tip about an S-10 Pickup leaving the house on the night of the murders.

 

[Dark Knight]

I see in the most recent thread that Amanda made in the Mongo forum she ended it by saying, " I can only prey". Little does she know that she may have given away her true nature by the way that she misspelled the word, "prey". Believers pray-------predators prey.


Lion

She's spelled it "prey" from the very beginning. Too long to be a Freudien slip, in my opinion, anyways. But never know.

 

[Rosco]

She's spelled it "prey" from the very beginning. Too long to be a Freudien slip, in my opinion, anyways. But never know.

She graduated top of her class just a few years ago. Honor student all of grade school and all of high school. A-student.

 

[Cubby]

Police got a tip about an S-10 Pickup leaving the house on the night of the murders.

Thats wonderful. Hopefully it will lead somewhere.

With all due respect, I am going to share my thoughts on "A". Not from a sleuthing perspective, but possibly her family perspective. She may be reacting as she is because she the only biological child of both Terry and Darlene, therefore it is possible she sees herself as a family of 3 and everyone else more like extended family. Yes her behavior is inappropriate and questionable, but that does not make her guilty. How many 20 years olds look up to or seek advice from older family members? At that age they are still relying more heavily on friends and don't necessarily want to be told what or how to do something. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, just sharing how I see it.

Something else I noticed unusual. Her ISP location no longer reads as it did earlier today, so we'll assume she is following this thread as closely as she is the others but not as a registered member.

I also find it odd that anonomos posted with 3 different locations which don't appear to be close to each other or close to the location under "A". I have to question how well a person that far away would have such detailed information on your fathers life in the recent months before this occured. I also find it odd that person only posted twice, early on and hasn't posted since. Perhaps they are distrusting of Crime Stoppers?



jmt........

 

[LionRun]

She's spelled it "prey" from the very beginning. Too long to be a Freudien slip, in my opinion, anyways. But never know.

Actually, I never thought it was a freudian slip. I saw that she simply spelled it that way. I did think, however; that it is ironic how her innocent misspelling of the the word, "pray" has perhaps a deep and true meaning never intended by her.

Lion

 

[LionRun]

Cubby, I understand that a young person may think differently due to the stage of maturity a person of that age may be at. However, I read that Amanda knew Rosco and others as family from the time she was 3 years old.

When it comes to the murder of your parents, any young person is likely to run to the other family members for support, love, and security, especially, if they got along very well previous to the murders as in this case. Friends are important to a young person; but, it is totally uncharacteristic of an innocent person shutting out the only family she has left in the world who would have dropped the world for her.

Please explain what you mean about isp locations. I do not understand much of anything about internet and the like, so you may need explain it as if I were about five years old lol. Do you think that she is reading on this forum? Can you tell me why you would think that? Thank you very much cubby, and welcome to WS.

Lion

Thats wonderful. Hopefully it will lead somewhere.

With all due respect, I am going to share my thoughts on "A". Not from a sleuthing perspective, but possibly her family perspective. She may be reacting as she is because she the only biological child of both Terry and Darlene, therefore it is possible she sees herself as a family of 3 and everyone else more like extended family. Yes her behavior is inappropriate and questionable, but that does not make her guilty. How many 20 years olds look up to or seek advice from older family members? At that age they are still relying more heavily on friends and don't necessarily want to be told what or how to do something. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, just sharing how I see it.

Something else I noticed unusual. Her ISP location no longer reads as it did earlier today, so we'll assume she is following this thread as closely as she is the others but not as a registered member.

I also find it odd that anonomos posted with 3 different locations which don't appear to be close to each other or close to the location under "A". I have to question how well a person that far away would have such detailed information on your fathers life in the recent months before this occured. I also find it odd that person only posted twice, early on and hasn't posted since. Perhaps they are distrusting of Crime Stoppers?



jmt........

 

[Cubby]

Thank you for the welcome.

Yes I think she is reading this forum. Why? The message under her screen name originally read "ISP location <town name>". Since I posted, it now has only a town name and the words "ISP location" are gone. . I've noticed 4 different town names since she began posting. I'm not sure how the other forum works by picking that up or if the user enters the information. ISP is Internet Service Provider and each person usually has a number assigned to them. You can usually find some elses by fully opening the header of emails.

With regards to her reaction to her family. I'm not a professional, but I can't help but think along the lines of some kind of co-dependency/control (boundary) issues with her based on some of her reactions. I may be way off never having been in that kind of horrendous situation, but based on seeing control and codependency issues first hand that comes to mind. Something is telling me she feels some entitlement, perhaps jealousy of her fathers previous family based on loyalty to her mother. Maybe something do to, if I followed this correctly, being the only blood related child of both victims. It may be that everyone else besides her felt that safety and security within the family and she did not.

It would be interesting to see what someone with a professional degree in counseling ( either psychologist or psychiatrist ) might interpret the behavior.

I've seen the heartfelt efforts her family has extended to her. It must be difficult to understand her reaction, especially if it was unexpected which it appears to be. Hopefully one day she'll get it, and not have pushed her family so far away it's too late.

 

[Boyz_Mum]

Cubby, For not being a pro in the mental health field (and neither am I) you are very well spoken and to me (as a layperson) what you say is very sensible. Your words have helped me to see anothers view of the same situation and that can be helpful. To be honest, I still don't understand the ISP address explanation. I won't ask you to reiterate but will take your word on it!

I was also wondering if the tip recieved on the truck offered any feedback? Does anyone know?

 

[Rosco]

Thank you for the welcome.

Yes I think she is reading this forum. Why? The message under her screen name originally read "ISP location <town name>". Since I posted, it now has only a town name and the words "ISP location" are gone. . I've noticed 4 different town names since she began posting. I'm not sure how the other forum works by picking that up or if the user enters the information. ISP is Internet Service Provider and each person usually has a number assigned to them. You can usually find some elses by fully opening the header of emails.

With regards to her reaction to her family. I'm not a professional, but I can't help but think along the lines of some kind of co-dependency/control (boundary) issues with her based on some of her reactions. I may be way off never having been in that kind of horrendous situation, but based on seeing control and codependency issues first hand that comes to mind. Something is telling me she feels some entitlement, perhaps jealousy of her fathers previous family based on loyalty to her mother. Maybe something do to, if I followed this correctly, being the only blood related child of both victims. It may be that everyone else besides her felt that safety and security within the family and she did not.

It would be interesting to see what someone with a professional degree in counseling ( either psychologist or psychiatrist ) might interpret the behavior.

I've seen the heartfelt efforts her family has extended to her. It must be difficult to understand her reaction, especially if it was unexpected which it appears to be. Hopefully one day she'll get it, and not have pushed her family so far away it's too late.

Cubby - thanks for your post.

I think the thought of her never accepting us as family can be true. You are not the first to question that possiblity of the actions. I thought about that possibility from the start. But the questions is still 'why'? When there was never any tention or bad feelings EVER during visits and phone calls. My stomach aches because of the thought of her always hating us when we would visit. Sure fooled me. WOW... Between all the river rides and thanksgiving dinners along with chirstmas gifts and trips to the flea markets - she just could not stand us around. WOW.. I was a fool. Fixing her hair up during our 'make-up' times... and combing her long blonde hair when she was younger. She would ask me to do these things. Always asking my husband to join her in bike ride and river swimming. If that is/was the case Cubby than she had my entire family snowballed. To be able to just 'turn it off' within a split second just amazes me the control in her mind and heart.
That hurts really bad. It really does. Almost as bad and Dad and Darleen being gone. Cuz it's the thought of being hated by your own sister you adore and love AND still cry for everyday. Really hurts. And I am sorry that IF she ever 'get's it'... I will not be answering that door or phone. I know that DK, by brother and MANY others will not like that answer - but the horrific pain from loosing my Dad and Darleen's to murder was bad enough and will burn forever in my heart, but to add 100 times more to the pot is just unacceptable and I can never forgive. Cuz you hated me that much. WOW.. that just socks it right to the heart. Sorry... maybe time will change that - but I really doubt it.

I know Cubby that there are no answers yet. I wait. I just pray that I will still be alive to whitness the person/s receive the death penalty.

To loose TWO family members to murder is horrible. To also loose family that is still alive after the murders is just sometimes hard to not loose my mind.

Rosco

 

[angarella]

Rosco ~

Just stumbled across this thread today, quite by accident. I want to say first that I am so very sorry for the loss of your dad and stepmother. And the apparent loss of your sister.

I still want to read the entire posts at Topix. But from what little that I have read, it seems "A" is always very defensive in her posts. And although she might not be directly involved in the murders, I cannot help but think that she knows something.

I feel for you and your husband and child. I will continue reading. And I offer you my thoughts and prayers.

xoxoxoo

Ang

 

[angarella]

Actually, I never thought it was a freudian slip. I saw that she simply spelled it that way. I did think, however; that it is ironic how her innocent misspelling of the the word, "pray" has perhaps a deep and true meaning never intended by her.

Lion

I actually picked up on the word being spelled incorrectly during one of the few Topix posts that I have been able to read. But as I have read a few more of her posts, I notice a lot of mis-spelled words. No offense intended to anyone, just what I noticed....

 

[angarella]

Sorry about making mulitple posts.. I just started reading the Topix thread and "A'" says....

"Also I have paid all expences that my parents had left and also the whole funeral costs and the cost of the headstone that is being made and to be ready for the spring or so. They have not helped me. But, do not get me wrong, I don't hold that against them, because I did not..........".


Anyone know where she got all of this money to pay for these expenses?

 

[Rosco]

Sorry about making mulitple posts.. I just started reading the Topix thread and "A'" says....

"Also I have paid all expences that my parents had left and also the whole funeral costs and the cost of the headstone that is being made and to be ready for the spring or so. They have not helped me. But, do not get me wrong, I don't hold that against them, because I did not..........".


Anyone know where she got all of this money to pay for these expenses?

Thanks angarella for reading and for your prayer.
Amanda did NOT have any large amounts of money in a bank account. She just started to work full time just a few years prior. She didn't make a whole bunch of money. Dad paid for cell phone and car insurance. HE told me that. He also paid for other expenses for her BF at the time - like lawyers and court costs. Apparently some past issues haunted BF and Dad tried to be the good father and to help him out/loan money. She received money on her 21st b-day (6months after the murders) from her grandfather - OUR grandfather. This money was in a trust fund and I knew it cuz dad told me years prior. Also - 401k (((darleen worked for Kraft Foods for 35yrs - had lots of money in 401K. I seen the statement))), life insurance and home, cars, everything is with her. She received all money from death policies and benefits. That is where she got HER MONEY. UNLESS.. she had some private BIG money making deal that I, my husband or my father didn't know about - but I truly DOUBT that.

- AND my son never was even offered a fishing pole from his grandfather.

Thanks for reading and I look forward to your thoughts.

Rosco.

 

[angarella]

Thanks angarella for reading and for your prayer.
Amanda did NOT have any large amounts of money in a bank account. She just started to work full time just a few years prior. She didn't make a whole bunch of money. Dad paid for cell phone and car insurance. HE told me that. He also paid for other expenses for her BF at the time - like lawyers and court costs. Apparently some past issues haunted BF and Dad tried to be the good father and to help him out/loan money. She received money on her 21st b-day (6months after the murders) from her grandfather - OUR grandfather. This money was in a trust fund and I knew it cuz dad told me years prior. Also - 401k (((darleen worked for Kraft Foods for 35yrs - had lots of money in 401K. I seen the statement))), life insurance and home, cars, everything is with her. She received all money from death policies and benefits. That is where she got HER MONEY. UNLESS.. she had some private BIG money making deal that I, my husband or my father didn't know about - but I truly DOUBT that.

- AND my son never was even offered a fishing pole from his grandfather.

Thanks for reading and I look forward to your thoughts.

Rosco.

Rosco ~

I know you are in a great deal of pain and turmoil. I cannot even begin to imagine. And I know you do not even talk to "A" anymore. But I would make contact somehow someway to get your son one of the fishing poles.

Godspeed my friend.

xo

Ang

 

[Dark Knight]

Thanks angarella for reading and for your prayer.
Amanda did NOT have any large amounts of money in a bank account. She just started to work full time just a few years prior. She didn't make a whole bunch of money. Dad paid for cell phone and car insurance. HE told me that. He also paid for other expenses for her BF at the time - like lawyers and court costs. Apparently some past issues haunted BF and Dad tried to be the good father and to help him out/loan money. She received money on her 21st b-day (6months after the murders) from her grandfather - OUR grandfather. This money was in a trust fund and I knew it cuz dad told me years prior. Also - 401k (((darleen worked for Kraft Foods for 35yrs - had lots of money in 401K. I seen the statement))), life insurance and home, cars, everything is with her. She received all money from death policies and benefits. That is where she got HER MONEY. UNLESS.. she had some private BIG money making deal that I, my husband or my father didn't know about - but I truly DOUBT that.

- AND my son never was even offered a fishing pole from his grandfather.

Thanks for reading and I look forward to your thoughts.

Rosco.

You can make a small fortune selling meth, I hear.

 

[Rosco]

Rosco ~

I know you are in a great deal of pain and turmoil. I cannot even begin to imagine. And I know you do not even talk to "A" anymore. But I would make contact somehow someway to get your son one of the fishing poles.

Godspeed my friend.

xo

Ang

angarella - Thanks for your post.
Last Oct she had an estate auction. I was not told about - I found out when someone passed the house and seen the sign advertising. I send several 'friends' to the house w/my OWN money and tried to purchase something's for my son, husband and myself. I thought if I have to BUY it back at least I have it... Unfortunately I was told that it was a 'upscale' garage sale. Not an estate sale. There was NOTHING from my dad's fishing guide business or even his walking cane (I bought for him at Christmas one year and wanted it back) with the Father Time on the top... NOTHING.. not any of great-grandma furniture or my fathers hunting gear. All that was kept under lock and key in the house. The person who was running the auction was heard several times by my 'friends' that whatever is here is the ONLY things SHE would allow to be sold. It was all my dad's OLD fishing gear and his broken down garbage stuff. NOTHING of interest for really anyone. GARBAGE she was selling!! My father owned his own fishing guide service. MUSKY fishing. And he had a new boat with plenty of baits and tackle. THOUSANDS of dollars worth of tackle alone. GARBAGE was out there... Got pic's from my 'friends' cell-phone while there..

I will never call her/speak to her and ask for anything - EVER. No fishing pole is worth that torture. I just wanted to make that point that non of Dad's grandkids received anything.. nothing.

As far as I am concerned regarding "A" - she will receive what is coming to her. Either from the greed of thinking she is the only family member or the abuse she is feeding her body. Sad.

Somedays is easy and others are a struggle to get by. Yesterday was a struggle for some reason - but today I feel a little better.

Have a great day angarella.
Thanks again for caring.
Rosco.

 

[Rosco]

You can make a small fortune selling meth, I hear.

Thought about that too DK.. But users don't normally keep that kind of money (thousands). They do all the product up. That's allot of cash to keep.

 

[LionRun]

How are things going Rosco? I am glad you are having a fairly good day today. I look forward to hearing back from anyone on the topix thread.

Lion

 

[angarella]

Hey Rosco ~

I could feel your hurt in that last post regarding the "estate" cell. Truly am sorry my friend. I wish I could help. I will just send you good thoughts and prayers that justice will be served.

Still trying to muddle through the whole Topix thread.

xoxoxoxo

Ang