Nova
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Our own Southern belle! :crazy:
All this attention is giving me the vapors!
Our own Southern belle! :crazy:
I didn't know you were raised in the South Nova.
However she is right about stereotyping. If it is wrong it is wrong....regardless of what some idiots do......
As a representative of USA government, albeit on a small scale, this man did NOT have the right to base his decisions on the race of the bride and groom. He clearly is in the wrong.
While we are all happy and relieved to hear that he has stepped down, it is worthwhile to note that he has been under intense pressure to resign since day 1. The governor condemned the jp's decision, and asked him to step down. This man is so entrenched in his beliefs and so stubborn that it took way too long for him to realize he had done something wrong.
What Cyberlaw said.
My favorite part of the article;
"I'm not a racist. I just don't believe in mixing the races that way," Bardwell told the Associated Press on Thursday. "I have piles and piles of black friends. They come to my home, I marry them, they use my bathroom. I treat them just like everyone else."
Bardwell said he asks everyone who calls about marriage if they are a mixed race couple. If they are, he does not marry them, he said.
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I'm not so sure the magistrate was wrong in the sense that is being examined. He has a right to his personal beliefs and opinions, he is not obligated to marry anyone. I think his mistake was announcing his personal beliefs while in the application of his job in this politically correct world. All of us have opinions that may not be accepted with everyone.
I may have a few opinions like that myself. lol.
Nova, No, I am just talking about magistrates, I have personal intimate knowledge of them and how they look at this situation. Most are just average people, with their own ideas, and normally alot of them are older men and you just can't tell them anything. Since that was opinion he should not have shared it with the couple while in a public position. Magistrates are asked by people to marry them when they are not on the clock. Thats why they have the right to refuse. Now, if he was on public duty and they had a legal license, he should have married them without any opinion and let them be on their way. Because in that instance he should follow the laws of the state without inserting his opinion, but if he was on his own time and they insisted upon a marriage service, then he would be able to refrain from that action.
She is right. But there are degrees of wrongness. Southern stereotypes may offend some, but they are rather proudly and loudly embraced by many in the South (and elsewhere, since in fact the Bubba Nation knows no strict boundaries).
Moreover, those same stereotypical beliefs and traits are employed to oppress others, which makes the stereotypes proper targets of satire.
In other words, there's a difference between stereotyping the powerFUL and stereotyping the powerLESS.
.....so since when are white southerners powerful and african americans powerless?:waitasec:
Nova, No, I am just talking about magistrates, I have personal intimate knowledge of them and how they look at this situation. Most are just average people, with their own ideas, and normally alot of them are older men and you just can't tell them anything. Since that was opinion he should not have shared it with the couple while in a public position. Magistrates are asked by people to marry them when they are not on the clock. Thats why they have the right to refuse. Now, if he was on public duty and they had a legal license, he should have married them without any opinion and let them be on their way. Because in that instance he should follow the laws of the state without inserting his opinion, but if he was on his own time and they insisted upon a marriage service, then he would be able to refrain from that action.
I'm not so sure the magistrate was wrong in the sense that is being examined. He has a right to his personal beliefs and opinions, he is not obligated to marry anyone. I think his mistake was announcing his personal beliefs while in the application of his job in this politically correct world. All of us have opinions that may not be accepted with everyone.
I may have a few opinions like that myself. lol.
Since the first African slaves arrived in Florida in the 1560s (early 1600s in Virginia).
I'm not saying every white individual is powerful and every black individual is powerless. Obviously not, at least not today.
But stereotypes deal with generalities and history, so the general power of each group relative to the other is the point.
More importantly, my original point was that if Southerners don't like stereotypes, we should stop embracing them and holding hem up as ideals.
Not sure who "we" is supposed to be here, but I certainly don't embrace those stereotypes which reflect negatively on southerners, and I don't know many people who do. In fact, I can't think of anyone I know who does.
According to LA law, this man did not have to perform any marriage, so, legally, he did not break LA law. The State of LA needs to change their laws to prevent this from happening again.
He is being sued for denying their civil rights, and believe me, the couple will win. The minute he said he "routinely" turned down inter-racial couples, his goose was cooked.
And yes, so many of our laws need to be changed. Several years ago, the newspaper printed some of the old laws still on Louisiana books. It was pretty amusing and horrifying all at the same time.