katydid23
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Respectfully, I don't see how I can conclude she is an alcoholic? She admits to being drunk the night Lisa disappeared and to drinking a couple to a few times a week but alcoholism is much different than being drunk or having drinks a few times a week.
So I'm not sure I can conclude that Jeremy is co-dependent.
Alcoholism and drinking are two very different things. I haven't seen anything yet that tells me she is an alcoholic. She may very well be, I don't know. But I have to wait and see if there are any other factors that point to that.
JMHO.
I think she does have a drinking problem, and here is why. She had a 10 month old, sick baby. She even said herself that the child was very fussy from her cold, so she put her in the crib at 6:40. And now, by her own admission, she did NOT check on her again after that, as she once claimed.
So she puts a sick infant into her crib, and then goes and drinks 5 to 10 glasses of wine and ignores the child completely. That tells me that she had a drinking problem because she let her drinking get in the way of the welfare of her children.
ETA: and her flippant answer, that ' the child was sleeping so she deserves her grown up time' is more evidence of her problem. Any sober parent knows that just because you put a child in their crib or their bed, it does NOT mean they are 'sleeping.' Any number of small problems and emergencies can happen during that time.