Casey was George's daughter but I believe that no matter how hard he tried to keep Casey on the straight and narrow Cindy took Casey's side. I think it became a two against one. I do not believe George molested Casey. The story has changed too much. The original story was that Lee did. Now out of no where there is this blockbuster news. Nope.
The relationship I believe between George and Casey was more passive, just as it was with Cindy. As a result of that Casey played one against the other constantly in my opinion, causing marital strife.
George had left the house and was living elsewhere not long before Caylee went missing. Probably because of problems with Casey and he just gave up.
Casey was used to getting her own way and is still trying to get her own way. Her hands are betraying her. What happens when she gets upset in court? Her hands start pinching up and numb? IMO They are her weapons and she can't stand them. She covers them with sweaters and blouses and whatever she can. She twists and wrings them. What happened with those hands? She doesn't like those hands.
I believe both Cindy and George realized early on their words in that first 48 hours sank Casey. They tried to save their daughter by explaining away certain things. Were they told to say that by someone? Time will tell on that and I believe it will be Casey, George and Cindy against Baez when Casey is convicted. Look out Mr. Baez.
George is certainly not an angel but something is not adding up to me about George molesting his daughter. I don't see it.
ITA. I think what we were are seeing is a man in conflict. I think he knows he didn't do enough about Casey, and I think he feels ashamed about it. I think he knows how things were, but just can't admit to it in public. I think he has spent much of his time ashamed at how lackluster he was with Casey and because of that, I think he believes Caylee paid the price for it. He has to make himself feel better about what happened. He has to see himself as more capable than he knows he really was. It's how he's dealing with what happened to Caylee and the years of dealing with his sociopathic daughter Casey.
I think this is what the whole family is going through. There is a huge conflict between what they know happened and their guilt about what happened. I think each family member blames themselves more than Casey for what happened (maybe not so much Lee to a certain extent, but definitely Cindy and George). I think makes them embellish, it makes them want to see things in a better light or at least put things in a better light for the world to see while in private, they are miserable, angry, and grieving for what Casey has put them through and their loss because of Casey.
In my own my dealings with a sociopath, and it's now been six to seven years since it happened, I still go over it in my mind. I still wonder if things were my fault, did I miss signs, why didn't I see her for what she was, why didn't I fight more for myself and get too scared to stand up to her? I know it ultimately wasn't my fault. I know I was taken advantage of by a manipulative liar who used me and then when there was nothing left, moved on and left me broken. But I still wonder if it was my fault in some way, if I was too stupid or naive to see the person in front of me never was my friend, or that I wanted a friend so bad I let her say all the right things and take full advantage of me. I still question myself, and I think something similar has happened to Casey's family.
I used to be so hard on them on not raising her right (and still am to a certain extent, at least with the enabling), but it's taken me awhile to understand that this way they had with dealing with Casey was a learned pattern, something they had to do to survive with a sociopath in their midst. They learned what to do, and they just kept doing it no matter how bad things got. And then Caylee was murdered, and I think they've been second guessing and not wanting to believe the truth since. They've been in total conflict with themselves and what they know is truth and the perception of themselves and what happened as seen by the rest of the world.
I am not condoning what they did, but I am glad to see that they finally accepted the truth that Casey did do this. I still think they are a bit selfish and too concerned with public appearances (George and Cindy anyway), but at least they are not covering up or trying to defend Casey anymore. It's a huge step for both Cindy and George. And it affects how they come off to everyone else. You can't understand it unless you've dealt with a sociopath. There becomes this ingrained need to defend yourself to other people, and to defend yourself to yourself. You're doing it because the sociopath has left you broken and unsure of yourself and your decisions probably for the rest of your life. I will probably be ninety and still think of the sociopath that affected my life.
I admit that I have never done the hateful and mean things they did, but then again, the sociopath I dealt with for only one year max. I can't imagine how I would be if I had dealt with a sociopath for twenty two years or more. I might actually be a lot like them, scarily enough. I think so much time and pain has happened between them and Casey that they are emotionally crippled, and still somewhat in denial of what really happened in 2008. I think they are still trying to color it better in their minds because they can't deal with how bad it really was, but at least they are closer to acceptance than denial these days. It will probably take therapy and time for them to fully accept it, heal, and move on. And sadly, Cindy and George are older, and they may not live long enough to find true peace for themselves. Twenty two years of dealing with a sociopath is a lot to get past.
I am giving George the benefit the of the doubt. If he is lying, it's not to be deceitful or cover anything up. I think his lying is more lying to himself about what happened and how he reacted. I think it's only been since he found out how Casey was going to defend herself that he has finally been able to start cutting himself a break, but it must be so hard for him. And I think what we think as creepy is just the way he has learned to deal with Casey and deal with himself over the years. I admit that I actually feel a lot of sympathy for him and Cindy now, and I never thought that would be true. Seeing how Casey is in court and in those videos and texts, the abject coldness and uncaring of how she is towards anybody but herself over and over again, shows me how cruel, thoughtless, and unloving she was not only to Caylee but her whole family and anyone that wasn't of any use to her. I can't imagine sharing a life with a person like that, and I think her family is lucky to come out of this as intact as they seem to be right now.