Minette
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Like disgusting creepy father, like disgusting creep son.
Son was likely victimized by father :stormingmad:
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as likely victimized by father :stormingmad:
This is likely an unpopular opinion, but I have even LESS sympathy for abusers who were themselves abused because they KNOW exactly the fear, shame and self-hatred their actions cause and they choose to do it anyway. I will never believe that anyone has an unalterable destiny to abuse a child. My reasons are deeply personal, but they won't change.
I agree with what you are saying on the face. But, in reality, children who are abused are at greater risk of being further victimized or victimizing others. Yes, I believe they have the ability to change their destiny but I know that it is terribly hard to do and the self-destructive aspect of the PTSD or psychological damage done is all too real.
I agree that any of the people who have been in Sandusky, the older and the younger, should have comprehensive mental care. I would advocate that he never see the light of day again. But, I am so torn in that he was victimized and will never be able to escape the cycle.
So sad that so many covered this up or turned a blind eye. More lives ruined to protect a dynasty, makes me sick to my stomach.