JA testifying . .. .
She met TA in ?, Calif. - not a tourist destination . .. meet 1/2 way . . . .
Making out w/TA . . . . within minutes of arrival . . . . . describe whathappened during ths makeout session in detail? yes
He opened door, he had the key, he opened door took me to the bed, started kissing, got more passionate, we ended up nude on the bed .. . .we did not have intercourse "so to speak" - we had oral sex . . . he called it grinding . ... . I guess a lot of Mormons do it but you are not supposed to . . . the "Provo Push" because it is in Utah . .
Besides oral did you have anal intercourse? no .. . not vaginal? no Just oral - yes
We spent Thurs & Fri night together - we both pated ways on Saturday . . . .
Were you giving or receiving oral sex?
both
After this encounter - there wasn't anything to do . . .that night we stayed in the room - watched some game shows - "Deal or no deal" .. . he was flipping thru the channels
The next day we were tryingto find a way to spnd the day .. .town of Blyth had a small movie theatre .. . . went to Sizzler - after engaged in mutual oral sex
Romantic weekend w/Travis . . .was that what it was turning out to be?
No - he wasn't treating me bad - he seemed 'checked out' . . . we connected a lot over the phone . . .he would talk about every subject = pleasant things . . . discovering things we had in common and different
When went to Arenburg (?) - there wasn't a mental or emotional connection - it was primarily physical . .
Were you and TA in a relationship?
no wasn't anything defined - we were seeing each other but we weren't boyfriend/girlfriend .. .
3 sexual encounters - all oral sex . . nofirst night was grinding, second and third were oral sex.
Did he ever express a desire over this weekend in Aronburg to have vaginal sex with you? no
It appears you declined his desire to have anal sex
Yes - we did not have anal sex
It didn't come up just one time but he was somewhat . . ..
Going to a movie, dinner, and sexual encounter . . .what did you do with him
He made CD's on his computer for me of music he liked
He shared information about being Mormon . . .
Oct 2006 have received several visits from Missionaries . .. .had you ever learned about the "law of Chastity"
No
In Oct 2006 - where you were in Aronburg - what was your understanding about that . ..
According to the missionaries they sort of glossed over it
Objection
What was your understanding of what thevow meant?
No premarital sex
Did you have an understanding of what that meant . .
Well it was explained to me by Travis
Objection
My understanding was vaginal sex was off limits but everything else was ok
Both TA and JA left Sat. morning - got breakfast @ neighboring truck stop . ..there wasn' a lot of conversation . . . forgot the question
After breakfast - ummmm we left @ same time = we checked out - he was in a suit and tie he had to go to Super Saturday - he hit the road to Phoenix . .
I wanna say 3 hrs drive . . .
Tell us how you felt leaving Aronburg?
When we parted there was a lot of affection, bummed out quite a bit, kinda felt stupid. ... I was replaying that weekend . . .. I wished we had more of a connection, a meeting of minds, I didn't dislike the physical part but it felt it was missing an important element . . .. missing the emotional connection .. . I didn't feel we had come closer an he seemed more distant . .. .
Howdid you feel about the sexual part? It didn't feel too much too soon, I had known him over that month - it was confusing a little bit - just where the line should be drawn . . . .
to me . . . ummmmm - sex is sex there is just different ways to have sex . . .it Seemed that TA was kind of like he had the Bill Clinton version . . . seemed like oral and anal sex were sex to me but not him.
That line of sex related to vow of chastity
Reflecting on the way back to Palm Desert -did you consider your actions . . . I trusted what he told me . . . I didn't feel like we were sinning . . .I felt a little used . . . I had willingly gone that way . . .
Ishow up @ motel . . . we have sex, he is not really there emotionally, I got a lot of attention when we had sex , but he left and I felt like a prostitute . . .. I didn't feel ike he wastreating me like he had been that entire month.
Did you speak with him that Sat evening when you got home"
No - I called him lter but he didn't return my call. .. I called him one more time on Sunday . .. . I wasn't trying t be his mother but wanted to make sure he got home ok.
We would call each other late @ night . . . .sometimes I told him Ihad tosleep and sometimes he wouldn't call but other times he would .
After feeling the way you did on Sat . . . why would you want to speak wth him @all.
I had warm feelings for him - kind of in the "crush realm"? . . .
You told us you felt used as you were driving back . . . but you alsohad feelings for TA . . . you were reaching out tohim on Sunday - Stronger feelings for TA stronger than feeling used? yes
Feeling used feelings become stronger.
Ummm - I sent him a text message on Monday - 3 attempts no return call . . . I felt stupid he got what he wanted and wasn't interested in me anymore . . .. I can't say thinking of writing him off . . . if he was moving on I would have liked at least to have known . .
Tuesday evening - Iwas in a business briefing - he called and left me a very nice voicemail. . . I called him after the meeting .. . .
coversation make you feel less used?
Yes he was very kind to me
I didn't express how I was feeling on th drive home -I didn't want to make him feel bad, I thought it was just in my head,
Tuesday then feelings toward TA . . . .
same routine, same subject matterson the phone . . . spiritual, sexual and other things . . .
Saw TA next - right before thanksgiving . . . he was on hisway to Riverside where he was going to spend Thanksgiving , my house is on the way
Baptized on 11/26/06 - Travis baptized me . . . . this was after Thanksgiving . . . I think the holiday was on the 22nd . . . .
He came to my house with his dog . . . I think Darryl was living in the house but he was @ work. . . . his dog jumped in the pool and sank to the bottom - TA jumped in the pool tosave his dog with his clothes - he took a shower .. . I threw his clothes in the dryer to get warm and dry . . . .
We were intimate again -oral sex or the grinding . .. he asked to have anal sex . . . it was more teasing and I said no. . . .
After . . . . did he ejaculate? yes -
Shortly thereafter he left.
May I approach your honor?
Exhibit #393 & #394
recogize those pictures of Travis's erection - they were sent to me . . via his phone . . . picture message -his phone and my phone . . . .
Want to enter . . .
Objection - no date on it
Sustained
JA - I think I remember the day . . . date on the photo reflect the day you received it. . . Saturday . . . .
Objection - no date stated
It was november 11th 2006 . . . .
#393 & 394 are admitted . . . .
Something you solicited?
Not directly - we were flirting . . .