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Can you believe this? When my son was fifteenth a "Jodi" attached herself to him and there was no making her go away. She was not a virgin, but my son was and it's hard to get your boys mind off what is being offered and taught.
She would call and write letters (yes you bet I read them) telling him about her teacher rubbing her shoulders in class and that there were boys in her school who wanted to beat my son up. Always the poor little me drama.
She showed up at his school prom (in a little black dress, and she didn't look like a fourteen year old girl..much more older.And her mother dropped her off at the prom.) and climbed all over him. Someone took several photos and she was all over him. Kissing his ear,hanging on him.
She went to our cabin with us one weekend and called our son in to her room to lay with her because she didn't feel good. So we told her that was not going to happen again. She walked out to kitchen and called him again to come be with her. It was a miserable weekend for us.
She got pregnant and had it only got worse. She kept pushing my son to get married and I told her and her parents that was not going to happen till they were of age. Everyday was a new hell.
One story was a police officer told her what states that they could go to and get married. I asked for the officer name so I could talk to his supervisor and that was dropped.
At Thanksgiving break she was on the phone with my son making threats of no one would ever see they baby if I didn't let them get married. I called her mom and her mom said " Oh she always says things like that. She doesn't mean it".
At Christmas is was she was going to have an abortion if I didn't give in. In January it was she was going to give the baby up for adoption and I'd never see him.
She was due the end of March, but had my grandson at home in an unheated house on a cold waterbed. He was six week premie, and she never went to see him in the nursery, and was mad because she didn't get the suite the hospital had for couples to stay in.
The Pedi and nurses were at the point of calling CPS and not the the baby go home with her and asked for a meeting with us and her parents. It was like no big deal to them. Walked out of the hospital and didn't look back. My grandson came home with me. I still have him and he'll turn eighteen tomorrow. The best Valentine I'll ever get. This is only one small part of what she did.
I did let my son marry her. I told him to go ahead it was be a hard lesson to learn. It was on and off again,with her always leaving the the baby behind. Then she'd show up when my son wouldn't answer her phone calls or pages and it was always"we need to talk". That is what I see in Jodi. The we need to talk. I think my son (and Travis) were overwhelmed and just wanted her to shut up and stop talking on and on about "their relationship", so I might not be the most forgiving for her or Jodi.
There are many walking wounded on WebSleuths that have been though hell and back in abuse....Jodi was not a victim.