EmmaliLucia
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If he has been abusive to her the entirety of their relationship ...why did she marry him ?
Jeez
Well, this is Websleuths. This is where we post crimes, and a lot of those crimes are murder crimes.
How many of the missing women were last seen by their husbands? How many of the unidentified women were killed by their spouse? How many times do we hear about murder cases where husbands have killed the wives?
Are you saying why did those women marry those men? To every case?
Abuse is a truly interesting and tricky thing, it literally changes the wiring of the victim's brain. The abuser convinces them to believe it was their fault to the point where the victims believe it whole-heartedly. Sometimes these victims were victims or abuse as children and quickly come to accept it from other people.
If you've ever seen someone in an abusive relationship, it's horrifying. I was more afraid of my best friend dying in her abusive relationship than I was of my ex boyfriend dying of his alcoholism, and he was at the point of having seizures when he was trying to detox.