Adrienne37
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As far as condemmning CS for not paying child support. I don't. To tell it llike it is...I would not have given him a penny either. TN and Sykes were giving all their money, paying for attorneys and overindulging the children with nonsense gifts and clothes. Why should CS contribute to rc so he could buy more drugs? Yes, I know...it is the law, blah, blah blah. To a nintenn yr. old young mother, they are not wordly. I am giving and have given her a break.
Does this mean that it is okay for a noncustodial parent not to take responsibility for the children that they have conceived and bore just because grandparents might be overindulging them? It's okay for a noncustodial parent not to take responsibility for their children because we may or may not know what their money is going towards? Not only was she court-ordered to pay support for children that she couldn't or wouldn't take care of, she should have wanted to pay the support not only because it was required by law but secondly because she really loved those children. If you carry a child to term, you give birth to that child, you help raise that child, child support should not be a burden. You should want to pay the support because frankly it's the right thing to do for the children.