Here is the thing. We have a deceased child of 5 yrs old, with numerous abuse calls and reports to DCF concerning this child throughout his short life. We have a couple custodians throughout this child’s life. At what point do we hold the main parenting custodians responsible for the child’s life? JH lost his son. But I’m not sure I will EVER believe he didn’t know what was occurring in his child’s life- and IF HE DIDN’T? Then SHAME on him. Many Many parents work to provide for their children. EVERY SINGLE DAY. It is what we do. He acts like he “never had a clue” as to what Lucas went through. And if that is true, he has a heavy burden to bear. Emotionally healthy people do not walk through life like that. Not with marks and bruises continuously. It doesn’t add up, because healthy people don’t NOT ask questions. Lucas had black eyes, bruises, and bodily harm that was noticed by others.... DO NOT TELL ME his own Father didn’t get it- I see a self- centered man, away doing his own thing, and paying the bills. Even if he wasn’t there for Lucas’s demise, he is still his father. His lifeline. Imagine living with all of that..... A complete failure as a parent. JH lives in hell on earth - and I hope this guy learns something about what that all should look like. The entire scenario, all the way around is severely tragic, and could have been avoided.
I still reel over this case every single day.
All MOO