leyash
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My experience and options only.
If she was willing to swing on a grown man she’d have no compunction about hitting or kicking a child. There are photographs of him with awful bruises that couldn’t logically be explained away by playground, bike, other child, whatever injuries. I’ve seen kids who have face planted on a bike and there’s always road rash with the bruising. I’ve seen kids accidentally head butted by other kids on the playground with facial bruising. It looks completely different than being hit in the face. One of mine ran out onto the playground one day at preschool smack into a plasticised picnic table and hit with her eye and brow, she bled like a stuck pig and needed a bunch of stitches but even after that the bruising certainly didn’t look like that in the pics of Lucas.
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We are on Websleuthers, we over analyze everything. A naive dad who only gets to see his kid 3 months out of the year, likely just wants to enjoy his time with him while he's home. He's not likely to look at a bruise and say, "Uhhh, that's 1/4" too long to have been caused by a fall on the trampoline."
The pictures I have seen of Lucas are horrid, but I'll be honest, my almost 5 year old falls, bumps, hits, trips things CONSTANTLY (he's clumsy like his mom...) and at any given point, he's got 3-4 bruises on his shins, back, knees, etc. While they don't look anything like Lucas's do, I can see how a first time dad would believe that they were from an accident. Especially if she didn't abuse Lucas right in front of him, and denied any abuse while he wasn't home.
I just feel like so many people are ready to throw him under the table when we don't have any FACTS proving that he knew that Lucas was being abused by EG. We just don't. Until he says it himself, or LE uncovers the truth and he KNOWS that EG was in fact abusing him, I am having a hard time focusing on him, when the real focus needs to be on EG, because she's the one that looks guilty right now, IMO.
Also.. everyone says, "He was warned by his family, and then they stopped allowing Lucas to see them!" Well... if someone accused my husband of abusing my kids, and I REALLY didn't think he was doing it - I wouldn't allow them to see my kids, either... just saying.