Wow, that was quite a story to read through. So, we know a lot about her character okay... but.. where is Kyron? I seriously do not care about her character or anyone's character or anything else anymore. Honestly that's why I haven't even come on much to read through posts. There's really nothing left to say or think up as far as what happened to sweet Kyron imo.
Where is that boy?
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You are right. But the public is hungry for info. None from LE so the media creates a story. But the overall picture may help in profiling, etc. I don't know. It gives us all some stuff to ponder I guess. Nevertheless, I am getting sick of it. I don't know how much more there is to debate or discuss until LE releases real info.
That's not what the article said.
You were referring to someone commenting that TH punished Kyron for hours. The article did not directly say that but it was inferred by the article, IMO. It said that if Kyron did not get what TH thought was a good report for the day, she wanted him to be punished by being grounded to his room for the day. I read it as the rest of the day which could be hours.
I see a lot of discussion about keeping kids in line with daily reports, etc. But I think what is important about this tidbit is there is nothing credible, IMO to suggest that Kyron is anything but a normal, good kid. There are no reports from the family who is speaking that he was acting out or doing poorly in school, IIRC. If so, what strikes me is that a woman who reportedly was a very attentive and loving mom to her kids, suddenly began to change in the last few months before Kyron's disappearance and seemed controlling when it came to his behavior. The kid she appeared to adore had become a problem child in her eyes. In any event, I just do not think there is a need for a daily report regarding a student's behavior unless that child begins having consistent problems behaving at school. Kids are not hot house flowers.
I caught that too Calliope. So Kaine is good strict but Terri is bad strict.
Oh except she seems to get glowing reviews as to how she is with children.
I did not see that slant. The article seemed to really praise TH's parenting skills except perhaps with a possible pettiness in the last few months with regard to Kyron's behavior at school. I didn't see anything saying Kaine was a good parent but not TH. Seems she did most of the parenting anyhow.
The thing is, nothing in that article is alarming about TH to me, if viewed in a vacuum. Average person with flaws and strengths and occasional weird moments. (Although the rearranging of others' things and/or disposing of them is bizarre to me. Smacks of someone with a guileless lack of interest in the feelings of others. But it would not hint at potential murder to me).
But everything that would otherwise be somewhat mundane takes on significance when looking through the prism of a missing child case and a stepmom who is obviously the focus of an intensive police investigation. Then the mundane becomes interesting.
I compare this to the Caylee Anthony case. casey was reported to be a very patient and loving mom. But now reports have come in that paint a bigger picture of who she was as a person. As more info has come out, those who looked at her and thought, 'This makes no sense! She obviously loved that baby. Look at the pictures of her with Caylee!' now realize that there were signs that something was off long before. If Caylee had never gone missing, those characteristics would not necessarily say much about her parenting. When she went missing, they did.
So where's the ice in the veins? I think Terri was terribly misrepresented and now I'm really wondering why!
Kids are impressed when their parents lose it and such events become magnified. So, perhaps TH seemed hysterical to her son but phony to others. Or, perhaps her son saw something DY did not. I get the sense that when Dy saw and talked to TH, TH seemed very cool to her. However, I think DY statements about ice in her veins was about TH not communicating with LE after a point, despite DY's pleas.
Finally, about the money comment. I see a lot of focus on how Kaine said "my money". He also said "our money" right after that. No one mentions that part.
I get the sense that Kaine is probably a somewhat stiff guy. Maybe not too emotive. Maybe uptight in some areas. That does not mean that TH did not harm his son. It also does not mean that there is this vast conspiracy against TH on the part of an abusive soon to be ex and his "prettier" ex wife, against TH.
But, there was a truthfulness, IMO, that resonated in what Kaine reportedly said. In my practice,
in general (IOW please do not skewer me for what I am about to say), when parties to a disso act badly, the way they act is differentiated by gender. Bad male actors tend to not want to or to refuse to pay support, or want more custody only for financial reasons. Bad female actors tend to waste assets and litigate unreasonably, racking up high bills, over things that cost way more than they are worth.
I am a feminist so please do not take this the wrong way but in my experience, I see way more women in my cases who blow through the family money with no regard as to how they will fare later on, than I do men. In fact, this behavior is often a cause for the divorce itself. Bad guys tend to make bad choices in these cases in order to save money (at least for themselves) while bad gals tend to make bad choices in these cases that result in a loss of money.
Just what I have observed. But my work over the years makes me feel deja vu here. I have heard this complaint and have seen it substantiated numerous times. So, I tend to give credence to the idea that rather than being an abusively controlling tightwad, Kaine had a legitimate concerns about TH's spending.
My two cents.