"We're here for the justice for Jaren Lockhart, and to remember my daughter Hillary Jane Moulder.
And yes, they danced on Bourbon Street, and they were there to make a living for their daughters and themselves," expressed Moulder's mother, Diana Sharp.
"Do not ever judge someone in this world for the living they choose to make in this world."
http://www.wlox.com/story/18794445/grieving-friends-supports-gather-to-remember-jaren-lockhart
Just what I've been thinking about on this subject for a while now...
We have no idea who is on the other end of that screen name.
We have no idea what the life experiences of that person are.
We have no idea who we might offend with strongly worded, judgmental opinions.
One can certainly have "favorite" people on a board like this. People you feel you connect with... yet don't really know.
You believe you have a lot in common, because you agree on so much. Then you could find out they live a lifestyle you disagree with.
I am certain that many of my "favorites" would see me completely differently if they knew more about me, about my past.
I find that very sad.
We see the best of the people who post here in most situations.
We see people who care, are passionate, want to help, who want to make things better for other people.
Why does it matter what someone's profession is, who their significant other is, what their history is?
Being a good person... caring about other people and being willing to help them... isn't that what matters?
I don't care what Jaren did to make money. I don't care how she dressed, what she pierced or how many tattoos she had.
I care that she loved people, was willing to do anything to help them, would give them the shirt off her back if needed.
I care that she was much like myself... a mother, a sister, a daughter, a friend... complete with the purple hair (sometimes.) :seeya:
Hillary's Memorial Video:
RIP Hillary Moulder - YouTube
One of Jaren's Memorial Videos:
R.I.P. Jaren Ann Lockhart - YouTube
Thx for the kind words as i used to dance and have been jidged by so many closed minded people!! I am not a *advertiser censored* bc i was a dancer.....but i promise people will say that....im married a good mom who loves my babies alot in common with JL and i am so tiree of people being so ugly....so the kinds input is appreciated by all here im sure and wish everyone could see the world the same as u ....it'd be a better plce thats for sure!!! Ur wonderful!!!!