No problem we all pick names for different reasons. When my son was a baby I was the only one who he would calm down for. When my husband would take him so I could eat, shower etc he would cry. So my husband would hand him back when I was done saying aww he needs his lady love. My husband continued to called me Lady Love when talking to our son so when he started talking he called me Lady Lub.
Isn't that sweet how they come up with their own names??
When my oldest son was about a year and a half to two years old we lived with my parents and my dad's grandma lives with my parents(yes she's old... 88 and still kickin' she's somthin') but I remember my son was knocking on her bedroom door and saying "ME-ME" "ME-ME" haha almost as to say let ME-ME in!!
Well he was the first grandchild to start calling her that...and IDKY he was saying that bc her name is nothing close to that.....this is why I always thought maybe he was saying ME-ME in reference to LET ME IN....but since then all the grandchildren call her ME-ME..
And it's when I think of these little memories and things like this that it rips my heart out to know Jaren's sweet little daughter was robbed of making anymore memories with her mommy and for that it fuels my fire inside and makes me want to scream for JUSTICE for not only her family but MOSTLY for robbing her BABY GIRL of a great life with one of the most important role models in her life and that was her mommy!!
I pray that the baby girl's father and everyone else in helping raise that sweet little girl keeps Jaren's memory alive and that way she will have only the great memories of her mommy in growing up!!
I'm sure the family will they all seem like a very close loving family...So I know in my heart that little girl will have a great life although she will never get to spend another day with her mommy, I'm sure her presence will always be right there!!
It's just so unfair...I think of how sad it will be when that little girl becomes a teenager and has her prom and graduates highschool and on her wedding day ETC...alll the most important days in a girls life when her mommy is needed most and she won't have that...and why???BC someone was so selfish and greedy that they took the life of a beautiful young woman for their own personal gratification!! It's such a shame!!!
I know in my heart Jaren may not be there in the physical presence but I know she will in the spiritual presence and I know she will be so proud of her daughter just from the looks of joy in Jaren's face in some of the pictures I saw of her and her daughter ....like the one of her in the car holding her...the few I saw with her at the beach....How Ironic she had such joy on her face in these pictures by the water and for her remains to turn up there in the manner they did!!!
I don't remember who it was that stated this but It made me think of the pictures of Jaren by the water....
Whoever it was said something about how they know it was Jaren's spirit pushing her body parts from out in the water in to shore...
And I physically got a peaceful ora over my whole body BC it just seemed so right!!
So sad I know she will be that baby girl's guardian angel!!
So sorry for rambling....Just wanted to take a minute and see the positive what little there can be that come out of a situation like this!:tears::tears::tears: