I just finished reading all of Mickey's threads. She seems like such an awesome person.
I'm a pretty small twentysomething woman and I walk places alone after dark all the time. Every Tuesday I walk home from a bar in a nearby town, about five miles total, because none of my friends live in the same direction I do. I walk to and from work by taking a shortcut over a fairly untraveled road, mostly because it's pretty and I like to hear the birds (I listen to people talk all day so the silence is nice). I live in a "safe" town and carry a knife just in case. I really thought I was taking reasonable precautions and felt like I didn't need to worry because my city is relatively low-crime. I read stories on WS all the time about people who disappear, but this one is hitting home. From what I can tell, Mickey wasn't doing anything wrong, she was just a kid who probably made an error in judgment and was caught in the wrong place at the wrong time. It could have been me or any of the people I know.
Since reading these threads, I am thinking twice about my habits. I realize that I shouldn't walk with my iPod anymore, and I should wait to text until I'm at my office or at home. There's a route to work that uses a busy, well-lit street, and it won't take that much longer. I am guilty of so many careless behaviors. I am kind of freaked out, to be honest. I never even stopped to think about what could happen,and in fact, I actually considered myself a cautious person. Then I read the posts from older (wiser) people here who couldn't believe that Mickey was riding her bike alone at 2 AM or that her friends didn't offer to drive. I would not have thought twice if someone I knew had been in the same situation.
Mickey is just like me and so many of my friends. I think we'd get along. I guess a lot of us just don't stop to think that we aren't invincible just because we're young. I hope that she comes home safely very soon and can enjoy the summer with her friends, like all twentysomething kids should be able to do.
Rambling now. Come home, Mickey.