Maybe the Casey they saw couldn't hurt Caylee. It just seems like it was a Casey that they didn't see. Does love mean that one doesn't confront the individual and ask that they make sense? Casey has been referred to here as evil. If I look at theories of evil across the board, there are those who claim that evil is really ignorance, lack of knowledge. So what kind of knowledge is missing, in this case, deeper than right and wrong.
If Casey thought that by depriving her family of Caylee's love would punish them for not filling Casey's fear that she is not loved, then the memorial shows Casey that they have not lost Caylee's love. Caylee's love will transform them.
Cindy appears to be making it all about Caylee. She comes off like it is all about her. Her kind of narcissism bugs people. At the same time that one has a strong ego, when things get tough, they have to use that self, in strength, to do what they have to do. The residue of Cindy's behavior in the beginning will linger on unless people drop the past and move on. It takes time to find a public self that will work if one is under extreme shock, fear, and stress. Cindy's lawyer has done a great job of helping them get a new balance. But, they are stuck with their ego's and will need a long time to get over all the misperceptions of them. They are correct. Care needs to improve drastically about children who are missing.
If Casey can't handle a public memorial, she will have a heck of a time handling a trial which will be pubic. This is, by the way, Casey's trial which turned into a family trial and the community which gets larger as the exposure increases wants Justice. Justice requires Compassion and Reason, sort of a balance of faith in love and faith in right thinking to find the truth. The whole truth is that all need to know that understanding the responsibility of love is not just feelings, it is the blend of compassion and reason. If one is reasonable they are conscionable. Cindy mentioned that Casey has compassion, she didn't mention reasonableness. That is what is missing. Casey is not stuck with her unconscionableness. Her defenses are operating as her family beg for answers.
What does Casey think makes her innocent? Is it that she didn't mean for Caylee to die? Is it that she is so ignorant about life that she didn't know what she was doing. Is it that she was not conscious of the path she was on? Is it that she needed intervention and didn't get it, or couldn't recieve it? I think Lee wants the whole truth to feel complete. that answer to why? How many times has Casey said that she doesn't know. She might not know is she is that ignorant.
All the negative acting out is hardly justified. It contradicts what the path to Justice requires. Anyone who hates Casey now will never find justice. Divine Justice is much different than the street kind that we have seen over the weeks. George apologized to Casey wishing he had been a better father to Casey. He probably has found the deepening that this horror has required. Other's will follow as the process unfolds.
There is so much to learn from this about how to live just as Lee says.
