ThinkHard
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We just don't know.
We could generate a few pages discussing what WE think are the reasons for frequent visits home and unless we have more information all we are entitled to are our opinions and comparisons to our own experiences - and that does not necessarily entitle us to the dismissal of other's opinions and experiences![]()
We are all very different. Personally, I don't think there is a "typical" experience of 'young small town women takes on NYC' and the stereotype portrayed in movies and books can be crushingly different from what many girls experience. That city can be a 'make or break' moment in a person's life and I would be hard-pressed to try and describe a "typical" experience from stories of all people I know who have done their stint in the big apple.
In a city with over 6 million and people arriving from towns and cities all over the world, obviously there are going to be differing experiences. That said, not too many young people from this area end up in NYC, that in itself is definelty an acception. Most locals who seek a city experience end up outside Boston, most commonly Somerville. But rarely NYC.
Also most people recognize that one persons experience doesn't define the experience of all, but I'm pretty sure that goes without saying. I'm not sure where you are getting the idea that anyone is making suggestions based on watching movies? But the only experience I can personally speak of is what was typical of me and my friends and my coworkers when I moved from the same local area to NYC. And based on MY experience her leaving that frequently personally strikes me as odd.