ThoughtFox
Expecting the Unexpected
There's so many inconsistencies in the quoted remarks from this article it's almost unbelievable. Gerry didn't want to unlock a door being afraid he'd wake the kids yet he went to the bathroom there in the apartment and had to of made some sort of noise. Gerry was afraid the kids would wake yet says that Madeline didn't wake up much at night anymore and twins were totally out. Madeline supposedly didn't wake at night or get in their bed that much lately even though the chart at home was full of reward stars so it had been considered a big problem yet they didn't seem to care if she woke while totally alone in a foreign place. When Madeline did awake, she got in their bed whether they were there or not yet not mentioning if she went looking for them in the home or where ever they were like most kids do. Was she afraid to? Gerry was glad that he didn't have to put up with kids during a meal in a place with no baby listening service at an early hour as if kids had no place in a restaurant. Gerry says that they could never have a meal out together as Madeline was always "disturbing" them when she was a baby as if a set of twins never cried or required attention during meals out. I noticed more things but my post is getting too long.
Excellent post! That's an especially good point about the Twins being "good" - meaning they never seemed to bother the adults - while Madeleine was a problem child - meaning she was needy and demanding.
The whole thing about predicting what a small child will do in the night just bugs the heck out of me. :banghead: I have three kids who have done everything from sleepwalking to throwing up in their own bed. Kids wake up due bad dreams or having wet the bed also. It happens to every child - I can even remember waking up with problems when I was a small child, especially bad dreams and running straight to find my parents.
So I don't understand this tendency the McCanns have to generalize that because a child has "always" behaved a certain way, that they always will. That's just so untrue, and a slippery slope of logic.