For the record, the name "DeCarlo" is a very common African-American name.. just wanted to throw that out there, since that was one of his aliases right?
And about LDJ, if it wasn't her, I'd expect that she'd be compliant enough to answer my message and say something like "I am not that LDJ".. or when I said "I apologize if this isn't the right person" she probably would've said "That's okay" or something. I want to contact her again, but I don't want to push her away further at the same time. Perhaps someone else should try contacting her, as well.. with a different approach than I used, maybe.