Zinn - interesting point of discussion. Mind if I move it to an appropriate thread though, when I get a moment to look for one? I fear I've derailed this one enough already.
Ausgirl - Sounds good. TIA.
Zinn - interesting point of discussion. Mind if I move it to an appropriate thread though, when I get a moment to look for one? I fear I've derailed this one enough already.
And Rebecca's sister was only 13. That is a difficult age for many girls. If she for some reason, took frustration out on Max, it may have been due to quick burst of anger. During adolescence moods can quickly swing up or down. Rebecca also placed her upstairs, on the same floor with Max. She could have been encouraging or helping him to try something dangerous.
JMO
And Rebecca's sister was only 13. That is a difficult age for many girls. If she for some reason, took frustration out on Max, it may have been due to quick burst of anger. During adolescence moods can quickly swing up or down. Rebecca also placed her upstairs, on the same floor with Max. She could have been encouraging or helping him to try something dangerous.
JMO
I have to completely disagree with this completley unfounded speculative attack on a 13 year old young teen.
It is equally likely that she is a responsible young lady, and was trying to prevent Max from attempting something extremely dangerous. Involving a toy he never should have had inside, or near stairs, in the first place.
The best evidence we have about this teen's character is this young lady's composure in the 911 call snip that was played on the Dr, Phil show recently. She performed admirably for a young teen in a horrific crisis, and did exactly the right thing by promptly dialing 911 and giving the most pertinent and accurate information she could to the 911 dispatcher. She did her level best as a young teen to help Max after his tragic accident. I'm proud of her efforts, and I'm deeply disgusted with the accusations and speculation here and elsewhere against her.
This is not just an "opinion". This post, imo, is just another example of (imo) the current orchestrated scapegoating campaign of a young teen, in the run up to civil suits being filed. Shameful.
As well as an attempt to derail the thread, imo.
Added: And it is ALSO equally likely that she was telling the truth, and was in the shower, and didn't see anything when Max fell. The absence of wet hair doesn't mean she wasn't in the shower, for pete's sake. People CAN shower without getting their hair wet.
The enlightening piece of your very good post is that it is obvious there is a concerted effort to cast aspersions on the only people purported to have been at the scene of Max's death - that being both Rebecca and her sister. And hell hath no fury because certainly the parents bear NO responsibility for Max's death. Max was allowed to ride an outdoor scooter inside, a 13 year old of course is a raging young woman and the staircase was of couse up to code and safe. What I see is an artificial need to point the finger anywhere other than what is a parent's responsibility because it was the babysitter's fault (sarcasm)or her sister's fault. So let's blame the dead girl. She can no longer speak. If Dina wants to sue then go after the dad who had custody of Max at the time of his death. These parents have proven their parenting responsibilities by having multiple police reports while little Max was around. So if anyone has led a less than stellar life as parents it is Max's own parents - not a 13 year old or a dead woman who paid the ultimate price being involved with this family. Shame on these efforts to blame others for their own screwed up lives. They frankly need to look inward IMO.
I have been wondering for a while about that stair case.....if it was so unsafe, then I would expect that it would have been changed as part of the remodel..........doesn't appear that it was modified at all.
With a historic home, there may be no legal compulsion to bring something like a bannister up to code. If the railing was removed as part of the remodel, there likely would be language to compel the new bannister and railing to meet code, but if it wasn't touched in the remodel, it may be legally "ok".
With a historic home, there may be no legal compulsion to bring something like a bannister up to code. If the railing was removed as part of the remodel, there likely would be language to compel the new bannister and railing to meet code, but if it wasn't touched in the remodel, it may be legally "ok".
Is it just me?
I finally let myself view a picture of Max taken at the hospital.. and something in it was nagging at me, I couldn't put my finger on what.. Until I came back to this thread:
And realised I'd been reminded of the two odd-looking, very circular and similarly spaced bruise marks on Max's forehead.
BBM. To even suggest that Dina had control of a scooter or was even aware of the goings-on in her ex-husband's house is so off-base it is difficult to take you seriously.
You keep bashing a grieving mother over something that was the total responsibility of those in the household where the scooter was located. XZ told police that Max had ridden it in the upstairs hallway the day prior to his death. She was old enough to take it away from Max at that time or alert his father or her sister. So were the two siblings that had been staying there. Failure to protect him from something known to be unsafe shows a reckless disregard for his safety.
I don't believe all of the five people who did stay there were unaware of the scooter or unable to remove the scooter from the dangerous play.
JMO
BBM - How do you know XZ didn't take it away from Max or tell the adults in the household? She may have. Awareness is much different than responsibility. It was not XZ responsibility to parent Max. It was Jonah's.
(Moved quote to discuss in the appropriate thread)
BBM - How do you know XZ didn't take it away from Max or tell the adults in the household? She may have. Awareness is much different than responsibility. It was not XZ responsibility to parent Max. It was Jonah's.
(Moved quote to discuss in the appropriate thread)
I agree, it was Jonah's responsibility to parent Max, not Rebecca's.
I wonder who told Max not to ride his scooter in the hallway?