Just jumping off your post Donjeta
Haven't LE investigated the arm incident and found no issues?? I'm sure that's what I have read/heard/seen on more than one occasion. Their relation of the fall sounds totally from beginning to end, plausible to me. Even the fact that she was more worried about JD's wrist. He probably landed trying to protect Ayla - she probably did cry originally from fright, but if she calmed when grandma picked her up, there wouldn't be a ton of concern that she had hurt herself. Not everyone runs to emergency every time a kid falls down - thank God (although you might not realize that in some of the hospitals here grrr)...
Maybe she remembers the lasagna because she knows she had to put Ayla down to check it etc...I can remember what I had for dinner the night I got the call about my sister in law having a heart attack...I had to take it out of the over (shepperds pie) to rush out...but the exact date? Not a clue! The whole situation with the arm just seems like people are trying to make something out of nothing -- as per LE.
ETA: Not to mention:
http://www.kjonline.com/news/aylas-father-describes-how-she-broke-her-arm_2012-01-06.html
I am very sure LE could and did check THAT out!