York County EMT worker dies from coronavirus three weeks after contracting it
Doug Dzubinski wrapped his life around helping others. An EMT in York County for more than 30 years, he'd rise from bed at midnight to take an extra shift at work, if needed.
Dzubinski died Dec. 4 after a three-week battle with the coronavirus. He was 53.
"It takes a lot to do that job. It takes a lot to do that job for a long time. Every day, you're seeing people at their worst moment," His boss, Barry Albertson, chief of EMS for Community LifeTeam, Pinnacle UPMC Of said. "He was a great EMT, very caring, compassionate to his patients."
The man Penny Dzubinski married 28 years ago doesn't really fit into a photo or a sentence. He treated her like a queen, she said Monday morning through tears. They went on adventures together, like cruises, and he shared with her his great love: scuba diving. He was a volunteer scuba diver at the National Aquarium in Baltimore.
Doug and Penny Dzubinski had been married for 28 years. They were adventurers and travelers together, and Doug was a lifelong emergency services worker. Doug died Dec. 4 after a three-week battle with COVID-19.
He was the stepfather to Penny's daughter, Bryanne, who was born with cerebral palsy. He would encourage her to avoid the phrase, "I can't do that." When they skied together, Bryanne would ski between her stepdad's legs. When they all went to the Twin Peaks in San Francisco, Bryanne couldn't overcome the high summit, so Dzubinski carried her.
He's the man a wife cherishes every minute she possibly can, and that's what Penny did. When he took his last breath on Dec. 4, she was holding his hand.
Penny doesn't know how her husband contracted the virus, but they both had it. Penny's was more like a head cold, she said, but her husband's illness continually worsened until he told her one night that he was having trouble breathing.
Even while in the hospital, he called her several times a day. In the evening, he'd eat his supper at 5, so she would too, then they watched a film together while staying connected on FaceTime. They called it "dinner and a movie."
He knew the survival rate for ventilated patients wasn't high, so he begged the hospital to give him one more day, just one more day, before being put on the breathing appliance, Penny said.
In his final week, doctors ventilated him and put him into an induced coma, Penny said. The couple who had just celebrated their wedding anniversary on Sept. 5 didn't speak again, but because she had tested positive for the virus and passed the contagion mark, Penny was allowed to go into the hospital for his final hour.
The doctor at UPMC Harrisburg cried with Penny after he died.
"She goes, 'I have only had your husband for four hours, and in those four hours, he could not talk to me, but there was just something about his aura that just touched my heart,'" Penny said.
This was the man who couldn't refuse a shift at work because he feared someone in an emergency would need help, and he needed to be there. He had been a junior firefighter as a teenager and became an EMT a couple of years later.
"He would do whatever was needed," Penny said. "If it was putting himself in harm's way, he didn't care. He just lived to help people."
"Doug was the kind of a guy who did every task well and to the best of his ability. He encouraged his fellow firefighters to be the best they can be," said Dan Orwig, deputy chief of Laurel Fire Company in Windsor.
Dzubinski was, among other roles, the emergency services coordinator for Windsor borough.
"Doug will be sorely missed by us all," Orwig said. "RIP Doug, we thank you for your service, expertise, and friendship over the years. We have it from here."