ZhaZhaHa
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So I was half the night trying to come up with a theory that would involve the POI in most peoples minds in Danielle's disappearance....and I can't...
- First I went with the drug involvement idea. Doesn't work for me for several reasons - 1.) POI worked really hard to get his Firefighter 1 & 2 Cert and his EMT license ( EMT isn't a walk in the park to get, as some here have suggested) and you will blow your entire career if you get caught using/buying/selling drugs. I feel confident he wasn't using or selling drugs it isn't worth it to him, you don't go to fire academy, EMT programs, etc to lose everything. 2.) Then you have the fact that all families involved are by all accounts outstanding citizens. 3.) He just doesn't meet the profile of a user/buyer/seller.
-Then I went with trafficking for money, but why DS. I mean there are plenty of girls in the Metro Detroit area that can be found on places like Back Page that nobody would have missed for weeks, months, heck even years and the abduction could have been done much more discretely.
-Then I moved on to infatuation gone wrong - possibly, I guess. But still there are holes in that theory for me. I get that good people do really bad things, but he has a sick wife who is in and out of the hospital, who would have time to stalk? You'd stick out like a sore thumb if you were a husband who spent a lot of time at the hospital and then one day stopped coming up?
-Also, rule out abduction for money - her family is by no means wealthy and an abductor wouldn't have had any idea that it her reward would reach $129,000
This is my whole issue with the current POI, I can't determine a motive -
I am posting this here to get other's thoughts, maybe there is something I am not seeing. Maybe its just that I have a hard time seeing this guy committing a crime because my husband and a majority of our friends are first responders (EMS, Fire, Police, etc) and I can't imagine any of them hurting/abducting another person. Give me some ideas...pick my theories apart...
BBM
He works in the same building as she does. He sees her every day. That's when he stalks her. He knows her car, knows where she likes to park, probably knows where her office is and what time she takes lunch. Their places of residence are only about 20 minutes apart from one another. If his wife were home, he could say he drove a coworker home or ran an errand while he followed her home. Shoot, he could have even left his post to follow her. It was mentioned before that sometimes people receive mixed/wrong messages by something as small as eye contact. She could have complimented him on his hat one day for all we know and in his mind, she's interested. If she began to notice his growing interest in her that way, she might have done a 180 and made sure she never looked at him, never went near him, etc. That might trigger him. He isn't ready to let her go and she isn't smiling anymore, so now what?
All just speculation, but from a woman who has had these same things happen, it is entirely possible.