[QUOTE=gam;13056750]Just wondering at the point this is at, how figuring out if it was an affair or stalking situation helps find her?
Yes we need to explore both, but we have done that and it can't be determined at this point with what we do know, IMOO. I'm not telling anyone what to figure out or talk about, everyone is free to post what they want. But the question I asked, I'm curious to the answer, see what I'm missing in others thoughts.[/QUOTE
'm trying desperately to determine if any of the facts we know can be dissected and used to determine whether this was a one-sided romance or two. And then I'm reminded of the words spoken early in the investigation to the effect of "WHY she went missing is unimportant. We just want her back". I try to give myself that advice. But still I chronically wonder WHY.
To answer your question as you can see from my post above, I don't like that I wonder. I suppose at some point you begin to feel an attachment to the missing person, and you want to know more. In my mind a relationship which has gone awry might have a worse ending. If we knew it was an obsession and there was a traceable phone it might mean looking in abandoned buildings,...