logicalgirl
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Yes, I am going to confess I had a somewhat ulterior motive for asking the Cindy vs Casey question. Well not really ulterior - but here goes.
I was reading the mitigating factors information and got to the part about abuse in the home, emotional blah blah. And you've read my comments about just how bad could it have been. Sure ICA is emotionally immature, etc. but does it rise to the standard of consideration during the mitigation process.
Let me make a blanket statement now that I do not like any of Cindy's behaviors - she has lied, attempted to impede the investigation - etc.etc.
Just thinking about the Gonzales depositions....grrr.
However, I was thinking about my youngest daughter and her rebelliousness during the years age 17 to about 22. The more she acted out, the more controlling and downright bossy I became. I was scared to death she would not "straighten out" and cause something serious to happen to her. It was nothing like Casey, but it was charging up my phone bill ($800 one month) not willing to pay nominal rent if she wasn't going to post secondary, coming in really late, not wanting to get up for work, generally being a slob like only a teenage daughter can be around the flat, charging up my cards, bouncing cheques - the more it went on the more frantic it went. She simply did not "hear" what I was saying.
Then she did and it stopped and she has been outstanding since then. Brilliant in fact.
But during that period - I definitely fell into the "now hear this" category. Which got me thinking about the "what ifs" of Cindy and ICA. Not saying (!) just asking.....:biggrin:
I was reading the mitigating factors information and got to the part about abuse in the home, emotional blah blah. And you've read my comments about just how bad could it have been. Sure ICA is emotionally immature, etc. but does it rise to the standard of consideration during the mitigation process.
Let me make a blanket statement now that I do not like any of Cindy's behaviors - she has lied, attempted to impede the investigation - etc.etc.
Just thinking about the Gonzales depositions....grrr.
However, I was thinking about my youngest daughter and her rebelliousness during the years age 17 to about 22. The more she acted out, the more controlling and downright bossy I became. I was scared to death she would not "straighten out" and cause something serious to happen to her. It was nothing like Casey, but it was charging up my phone bill ($800 one month) not willing to pay nominal rent if she wasn't going to post secondary, coming in really late, not wanting to get up for work, generally being a slob like only a teenage daughter can be around the flat, charging up my cards, bouncing cheques - the more it went on the more frantic it went. She simply did not "hear" what I was saying.
Then she did and it stopped and she has been outstanding since then. Brilliant in fact.
But during that period - I definitely fell into the "now hear this" category. Which got me thinking about the "what ifs" of Cindy and ICA. Not saying (!) just asking.....:biggrin: