ATasteOfHoney
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I DO have a case I just heard about that illustrates what you are saying. My daughter is 22 and her good friend told me a nightmare encounter he had with the LA County Sheriffs. I think they should have been demoted or fired.
This 23 yr old, intelligent, law abiding handsome young black man was all excited for a date he was going on. He lives in Santa Monica area, which is pretty diverse. And the cops are well trained so he never had bad experiences there. But this night he was going to the 'midnight movie' and picking up a girl he met at community college. She lived with her parents in Malibu.
Bodhi, which is his nickname, was driving his very nice Mustang convertible. He works at the Ford Dealership as a computer tech/mechanic so he has a very nice newer model car. He was driving up in a canyon off Pacific Coast Highway, looking for the correct home, so he was driving slowly and looking at addresses. Finally he got close to the right address and was getting ready to park on the street. Suddenly a squad car pulls up and begins barking orders from a megahorn thing. GET OUT OF THE VEHICLE. NOW LAY DOWN ON YOUR STOMACH!
Bodhi is thinking WTH? I am going to get my new clothes all dirty lying in the street. And then a few people were coming out on their porches and looking. And he sees the girl he is coming to pick up for their date. She and her parents are watching him being forced onto the pavement.
And both cops were very rude and condescending, asking where he got the car, and where he was going. He was trying to tell them but it took awhile. There were paper plates on the car so the cops thought it might have been stolen. But they did not give him the courtesy to have a normal conversation. He was directed to lie face down in the street. For no reason. He was so humiliated and angry and embarrassed. The date was very awkward he said. It was pathetic and I felt so badly about it.
Here you have an educated, hard working, law abiding young black man, and he was treated so harshly and unfairly, it is maddening. :furious:
Statistically, the police have a reason to have been concerned. First "paper" license plate tags always raise their eyebrows (stolen cars) and secondly the crime stats for that age/subset.
Emotionally, the situation you described isn't nice or fair but from a statistical standpoint it has merit.
We also don't know if the police had a BOLO for someone that evening.
What will matter is how we handle ourselves during difficult situations. Our own takeaways can make us stronger and build relationships. Or our own takeaways can give us more excuses to hate others.