Charlot123
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He had a baby under a year old with his previous girlfriend . I don’t know how he had time for all his activities and his family too.
Easily.
I once, over 25 years ago, briefly knew a doctor who had a very bad judgment to “consensually” misuse his patient. (Lost his practice for many years but, being a genius, was allowed to teach).
I missed the whole storm. Didn’t know him at that time. All I heard was how women working with him were providing “moral testimony” and surprise, surprise- each was saying something about him “tending to keep poor personal boundaries”. Later some people who were smart to keep mum said that yes, he had the tendency to touch their hair jokingly when passing by, etc.
Fast forward. A couple of years later, his male colleague was telling how he shared a huge hotel suite with “a colleague” during a conference, and the colleague couldn’t allow him to sleep as he was walking in the adjacent room till 3 am and then at 5 am when the storyteller woke up, the person was still walking up and down.
It was easy to find out who “the colleague” was.
This story about high energy and insomnia was meant to demonstrate the episode of a mood disorder. And honestly, I can’t even blame the doctor who got himself in such trouble. He was kind, not vindictive, amazingly bright, but probably had these blips of high mood ending in drama and ruining him. I don’t think he could be held fully responsible for his messed up life because trust me, he looked absolutely normal. Probably sublimated into relationships, and books, and lectures, and whatnot.
Dr. F. reminds me of him. He probably sublimated his high energy into relationships, and work, and cryptocurrency, and what not. He probably looked fine during these times because this high energy was burned in his many ventures. I just wonder how low he’d fall when these episodes would finish.
I feel sorry for him because I imagine how much he had to work to undo the consequences of these episodes. And definitely, his patients now lost a doctor, too. Not only his family, or families, I should say. The hospital. Go find someone willing to move there and take over his pile of work.