Tom'sGirl
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Google him, nuff said!I'm afraid even to ask who "Murt" is . . .
Google him, nuff said!I'm afraid even to ask who "Murt" is . . .
I always begin with lets give them a chance, who ever it may be, I always say lets hear them out, I always try to read between the lines; I believe in compassion, and I believe in justice. Watching this family for almost one year I would have to say They changed my mind and I do not get conned they are of that ilk. I cant give them a pass anymore.
too much went down...and this new attorney turns my stomach too.
I do not do jury duty on criminal cases NO - only on civil cases.
Because my heart goes out to people and these people do not deserve my heart. I hope I answered you in short.
:blowkiss::blowkiss::blowkiss:
As posted by the Sentinel:
http://www.orlandosentinel.com/news/local/caylee-anthony/orl-bk-anthony-chase-060209,0,317536.story
"Lois Peter, 56, said she went to the site on Suburban Drive on Monday night with her 13-year-old granddaughter and two adult friends to leave a cross and see if anyone would take it.
They arrived about 8:30 p.m. and watched the site from their car. That's when they noticed Dennis Milstead of Kid Finders Network, and friend of the Anthonys, driving up and down Suburban Drive"
It plainly points out who was in the car with Lois when the crap hit the fan.
OLGGoodness you really have come full circle haven't you? :blowkiss: ITA George is sadly transparent, just like the rest of them. without George, Cindy could not have continued her games all these years and vice versa!
The crap hit the fan 2 hours later, after Lois left and came back.
Hi BWYes, you did and I'm so glad you saw the light!:blowkiss:
BTW, which atrocity caused you to change your mind?
Google him, nuff said!
This is the facet of the Anthonys that has me so darkly fascinated: their inabilty to look ahead and perceive the negative effect their present actions will have on their future. Time after time. If I were the author writing the book on this case, I would definitely expound on that as one of the themes. I don't see them as completely stupid; Cindy is a nurse, and that's a degree if she's an R.N. George, not as much education, but he's not an idiot. And still yet they can't recognize how their own behaviors work against them. How is that possible? Surely people have spoken bluntly to them in an effort to get them to change their M.O. But we see no change. And from a psychological perspective that's interesting. I have to say that in my own life when I had negative results from negative behaviors I did some self-examination and made some changes. Some several times. Point is I recognized that if akashana wanted A, then akashana needed to quit doing B and try C. It wasn't a high-minded thing in any way. It was motivated purely by self interest. I see the self interest in these folks. I'm still waiting on the self awareness.
The crap hit the fan 2 hours later, after Lois left and came back.
This is the facet of the Anthonys that has me so darkly fascinated: their inabilty to look ahead and perceive the negative effect their present actions will have on their future. Time after time. If I were the author writing the book on this case, I would definitely expound on that as one of the themes. I don't see them as completely stupid; Cindy is a nurse, and that's a degree if she's an R.N. George, not as much education, but he's not an idiot. And still yet they can't recognize how their own behaviors work against them. How is that possible? Surely people have spoken bluntly to them in an effort to get them to change their M.O. But we see no change. And from a psychological perspective that's interesting. I have to say that in my own life when I had negative results from negative behaviors I did some self-examination and made some changes. Some several times. Point is I recognized that if akashana wanted A, then akashana needed to quit doing B and try C. It wasn't a high-minded thing in any way. It was motivated purely by self interest. I see the self interest in these folks. I'm still waiting on the self awareness.
BBM
I believe you're missing the point. The Anthonys don't care what other people think. The Anthonys believe they are a law unto themselves and everyone else is stupid, not having thoughts and opinions worthy of being considered, nor do they believe anyone has a right to do things they don't agree with. They believe they hold all the cards, all the brains, and all the power. Remember George telling Casey (as she's sitting in jail) 'you're the CEO, you're in charge'? That's why they are, always in charge, even with your neck in the noose you're still in charge - magical thinking.
My opinion only
As posted by the Sentinel:
http://www.orlandosentinel.com/news/local/caylee-anthony/orl-bk-anthony-chase-060209,0,317536.story
"Lois Peter, 56, said she went to the site on Suburban Drive on Monday night with her 13-year-old granddaughter and two adult friends to leave a cross and see if anyone would take it.
They arrived about 8:30 p.m. and watched the site from their car. That's when they noticed Dennis Milstead of Kid Finders Network, and friend of the Anthonys, driving up and down Suburban Drive"
It plainly points out who was in the car with Lois when the crap hit the fan.
GOOD I HOPE MORE PEOPLE DO THAT...I HOPE THE "A"s will have that foundation flop that is their main interest.
I hope people will continue to do that unless the law ropes the space off.
DO IT! DO IT! DO IT! Do not let CAYLEES name go forgotten. DO IT!
I have one finger for the "A"s - guess which one?
And I can t waite for them to get locked up. raying:BBM
I believe you're missing the point. The Anthonys don't care what other people think. The Anthonys believe they are a law unto themselves and everyone else is stupid, not having thoughts and opinions worthy of being considered, nor do they believe anyone has a right to do things they don't agree with. They believe they hold all the cards, all the brains, and all the power. Remember George telling Casey (as she's sitting in jail) 'you're the CEO, you're in charge'? That's why they are, always in charge, even with your neck in the noose you're still in charge - magical thinking.
My opinion only
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:The grand salute perhaps
You are trying to be rational with irrational people.:blowkiss:But at some point why can't they see it hurts them? How is anyone so blind? I don't care if they have to play-act their behaviors. They just need to change them. At this point I'm not even talking about the rightness or wrongness of what they have already done. The fact remains that their approach has alienated and isolated them from everybody, and has aggravated those who are in charge of their daughter's life and freedom, and also their own freedom. I think it's bizarre that they continue to make the same mistakes when the stakes are the highest they can possibly be. You don't even have to admit you are wrong to make a change for the better. Simply acknowledge that this isn't working, must try something new. I've only seen this level of obtuseness in addicts and alcoholics, and that is very different, as they have a vested interest in not getting sober (addiction v. withdrawal).
It's not that they don't care what people think. It's that they can't understand how displaying that attitude can only end badly for all of them.
But at some point why can't they see it hurts them? How is anyone so blind? I don't care if they have to play-act their behaviors. They just need to change them. At this point I'm not even talking about the rightness or wrongness of what they have already done. The fact remains that their approach has alienated and isolated them from everybody, and has aggravated those who are in charge of their daughter's life and freedom, and also their own freedom. I think it's bizarre that they continue to make the same mistakes when the stakes are the highest they can possibly be. You don't even have to admit you are wrong to make a change for the better. Simply acknowledge that this isn't working, must try something new. I've only seen this level of obtuseness in addicts and alcoholics, and that is very different, as they have a vested interest in not getting sober (addiction v. withdrawal).
It's not that they don't care what people think. It's that they can't understand how displaying that attitude can only end badly for all of them.