Yeah, and you're also here to tell us about it.
Seeeeee........that's the difference, IMO.
You have compared what happened to you and related it to this case. Which, is what we do as human beings, base much of our decisions and opinions on what we've experienced and seen.
While we all appreciate everything you've shared here, showing how it's NOT always the man who's the CHEATER AND ABUSER, either physically or mentally, the difference is you both came out to tell your side of the story. Whatever story is told, at least you both can tell it, whether it's truth or contradictory or not.
THIS case, THIS story, has one dead. One is silenced, one is here to tell all the dirty little secrets, or at least their version.
IF the other side contradicts his side, and part of the deceased story was that he was controlling and abusive. Just the mere fact the person claiming the ABUSE is dead, should be enough evidence to anyone looking from the outside in, that the survivor is most likely the perp. Especially as he was the LAST ONE with the victim.
Now,................to prove it.
JMHO
fran
PS....Like I've said, IF I am wrong, I will profoundly aplogize on this forum and to every single person who's read my words. This is JUST MY OPINION....fran
So because she is not here and can not speak it means he is a liar? First off he can provide receipts to prove whom spent what. He has made it clear in his affidavits that you don't believe...yet those things are EASILY proven by receipts and phone records. Again all friends on both sides admitted to never witnessing abuse. You never mention the fact that three close friends who you believe in their affidavits claim different money was given...50, 80 and 300. So which one of those three is NOT lying? Obvious 2 of them are lying OR have all been given a different sob story. YES? Either way that in itself makes me believe there versions are exaggerated complaints from a friend in a bad marriage looking for sympathy. You reason to believe the Plaintiff's hear say that clearly is contradictory to themselves... your reason cant just be "Well she is not here to tell her side." Or my EX is still here to tell her side.