A lot of instability in Amanda's childhood and Grant's. In testimony, it sounded as if Amanda skipped over her father, just stating that her mother was "single", until her mother married her stepfather. So besides the marriages, there could have been additional relationships. You've broken down the years pretty well here.
Amanda testified that when she spoke with her brother regarding their mother's death, he was shocked that she had no money. And she was angry while in jail when she didn't receive something from her mother's estate; maybe she wanted her family to pawn the jewelry she gave her mother and send her the money.
Amanda seemed to have inherited the pattern of moving Sha around to different relatives, too. Hopefully, she can break that pattern if she recognizes it. In my opinion, Amanda used Sha to her advantage as well. I can't relate, as a mother, to leaving my young child for such long periods of time, while pursuing my dreams. I just couldn't do it. Sha seemed much more mature than Amanda.
The husbands listed sound right to me. Perhaps she had some relationships after she became a rich widow. I wonder really how long would she have stayed married to NS, had he lived. I wonder if he was her true love, or just a convenient attraction for the money.
Her whole testimony was matter of fact. She described the trip to Texas as just your average vacation. I think the only reason they were stressed out on the way back to NC was because they knew the police were onto them. Sha had called, told them about being picked up by the police. The Raleigh police department were hot on their trail and they knew it. It wasn't going to go as smoothly as the planned.
When Sha says that the hutch came from the house where she grew up, she's thinking about the time between living with Karen (until age 4) and Amanda marrying the irrigation man (up until Amanda was 32? when Sha was 15 years old?). Amanda said that when she was married to the irrigation man, she spent her life travelling with him. Where was Sha at the time? Was Sha about 15 years old when that father died? ... and Amanda put her in a Catholic school in NYC? At 16, did she live with Karen, or was there some deal about living in the VI if she finished grade 10, or was it grade 12 ... junior year? It sounds like Amanda was suddenly living out her version of a "Queen" (not a Princess). I can't imagine what his family is thinking about how much of their inheritance was lost to her ... but I'll bet that she missed the jackpot.
I think that Amanda was vicious towards her daughter. When Amanda announced that she was visiting Karen for a few days and Sha asked to be included (Karen, with whom Sha spent her early childhood) Amanda told her to "quit being so selfish". That is not what should be said by a mother when a child asks to come along for a visit with the matriarch of the family (which is what Karen was to both Amanda and Sha).
Amanda rented a three bedroom apartment in Manhattan, trying to stake her claim in a rich pocket book. She failed. Someone probably told her there might be better pickings of older gentleman in the VI, so she posed as an artist
Sha gave them a head's up while they were driving home? I'm guessing that this was after the happy hotel photo.
That child looks terrified ... is that the one that Grant says witnessed his mother's murder?