kiki the parrot
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I guess I just don't get it as to why this matters. Why so much emphasis on the father of this child? It's as NG said last night on her show, yes, it's true, if he had not let her go there, she would probably still be alive but....he is not the person that destroyed this child. The 2 people behind bars right now are, so far as we know. BL didn't intentionally harm his daughter. The other 2 's did! His reasons for letting Shaniya go there have already been stated. His admission that it was a mistake has already been stated. of what she had gone into and would have appreciated a call from DCF since there was already an investigation on Antoinette and her 7 yr. old boy but that didn't happen.
There were a lot of circumstances that could have and should have been I guess I just don't see anything constructive coming out of picking apart the whys and what fors of his decision. He's stated in the last presser that he was not awaredifferent to prevent the eventual tragedy that has taken place here and ALL of them failed. ALL of them. The way I see it, everyone had a part in that failure. From Dad, to the Aunt, the landlord of that MH, the manager of the park, the neighbors, the Board of Health, DCF, Antoinette, school officials, the perp or perps, etc., etc. And out of that whole mess, there were only 2 that did deliberate damage to this child, her mother and the perp(s). That was intentional!
(bbm) And as I've said I guess *I* don't see the point of Shaniya's death being utterly in vain--where we learn nothing and ignore or gloss over what were the glaring red flags... unlike NG, I can't pretend these weren't being "waved" in front of dad and aunt when I hear the aunt herself say she's "never trusted AD due to her neglecting her children." #ell you don't think this crappy trailer in a crime infested area is enough of a red flag? If he didn't know it's because he didn't bother to see the dump where his daughter was being dumped. Let's LEARN something, by examining the failures so we become wiser, and more vigilant. It's quite honestly the only *productive* response concerned parents or advocates can have to an otherwise senseless, needless, heartwrenching tragedy. Even this evil, as horrific as it is, can be redeemed... if we are willing to learn anything of value from it to protect other children. JMO
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