When my 7 yo son died on the school playground suddenly, he was always healthy. We later found out after the autopsy, he had a hidden heart condition. I was in shock for weeks, could not eat, could not sleep!
I can barely remember the funeral. I could have never given any statements, nor went on TV. My house was a mess, I did not even shower let alone put makeup on. I lost a lot of weight and got sores in my mouth from lack of nutrition. I did not care!
Blessings to you, I really can relate.
My friend lost her 7 year old daughter suddenly by a wierd accident
at a church.
The pillar fell over and crushed her little daughter.
It was all over the news etc.
No way could my friend, her husband, close family members could of ever
made a TV appearance!
They all were in a daze for weeks.
It was so sad, we all just looked at each other and cried.
We sill do at anniversary and when she should of been 21 married etc......
It took months to pack up her things.
Very good friends had to go in and help, mom cried all through it.
It was so hard to part with her little things. Some was boxed & saved.
I just can't see how these parents and grandparents can do the Today show,
NG and Oprah.
These people almost act like hurry up and let's get on with OUR lives.