NC - Skyler Wilson Died of Hypoxic Brain Injury From “Swaddling” by Adoptive Parents Joseph & Jodi Wilson - Mount Airy

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Put in another way, she might have gaslit herself.

I had to "love" your post. Not because I love what happened, but because I agree with what you're saying and appreciate the thoughtful way you've said it.

This is a terrible situation, and I know that now I know about these things happening I will take care to be vigilant when I see members of foster families and try to make sure this isn't happening, in whatever limited way I can.
 
Thanks for the additional insight - wow. Same reason they can't find a suitable attorney - because they know better than anyone else. Will be interesting to see if they hire an attorney and see what that person is all about.

Let's just never lose Skyler in the mess these people created.
 
Some slightly unfortunate news to share with you all -- Jodi and Joe were scheduled to appear in the Surry County Superior Courthouse today in Dobson, NC, but it appears that it has been delayed, as the former lone employee of their chiropractic office had predicted or hinted at. They are now next scheduled to appear in the Surry County Superior Courthouse on May 1st. I assume this is due to their issues trying to find one or more lawyers/legal representatives, but I can't confirm that that's the case at this time, just basing that assumption off of the information in the Elkin Tribune article that was published on February 20th. I was hoping for more significant news, but it appears we'll likely have to wait about another two months for the next potential significant update in this case.

For those interested in keeping tabs on the scheduling of upcoming hearings in this case, here's their respective NC Judicial Branch (Surry County) case numbers:
Case Number for Jodi Ann Wilson: 23CRS209869
Case Number for Joseph Paul Wilson: 23CRS209865
 
Some slightly unfortunate news to share with you all -- Jodi and Joe were scheduled to appear in the Surry County Superior Courthouse today in Dobson, NC, but it appears that it has been delayed, as the former lone employee of their chiropractic office had predicted or hinted at. They are now next scheduled to appear in the Surry County Superior Courthouse on May 1st. I assume this is due to their issues trying to find one or more lawyers/legal representatives, but I can't confirm that that's the case at this time, just basing that assumption off of the information in the Elkin Tribune article that was published on February 20th. I was hoping for more significant news, but it appears we'll likely have to wait about another two months for the next potential significant update in this case.

For those interested in keeping tabs on the scheduling of upcoming hearings in this case, here's their respective NC Judicial Branch (Surry County) case numbers:
Case Number for Jodi Ann Wilson: 23CRS209869
Case Number for Joseph Paul Wilson: 23CRS209865
Thank you, @Ty2487 , I was just about to bother someone for a court update, and now I don't have to! :D
 
With the May 1st scheduled court appearance soon approaching, I decided to check in out of curiosity to see if there have been any changes to that scheduled date... Unfortunately, it appears there's been yet another postponement. Jodi and Joe are now scheduled to appear in the Surry County Superior Courthouse on July 17, 2023 instead of May 1st. This is the furthest their court appearance has been pushed back (2.5 months), so although this is just speculation on my part, a rescheduling like that would seem to indicate to me that there's an implicit expectation that those two are to have their legal representation in order by then. Of course, I suppose there isn't anything necessarily preventing yet another postponement from occurring, but trying to read the tea leaves a bit, this postponement appears to be further unique in that it has happened well before their next scheduled appearance, whereas the other prior changes in scheduling occurred much closer to the actual date (if not on the exact date) of when they were to appear in court.

To recap the rescheduling that has occurred since video cameras captured them walking into the Surry court for the first time in their orange jumpsuits on Tuesday, January 17th:

Thursday, February 2, 2023
Monday, March 6, 2023
Monday, May 1, 2023

Monday, July 17, 2023

Will the third time/postponement be the charm? As they saying goes, "The wheels of justice turn slowly" (far too slowly for my liking!).
 
With the May 1st scheduled court appearance soon approaching, I decided to check in out of curiosity to see if there have been any changes to that scheduled date... Unfortunately, it appears there's been yet another postponement. Jodi and Joe are now scheduled to appear in the Surry County Superior Courthouse on July 17, 2023 instead of May 1st. This is the furthest their court appearance has been pushed back (2.5 months), so although this is just speculation on my part, a rescheduling like that would seem to indicate to me that there's an implicit expectation that those two are to have their legal representation in order by then. Of course, I suppose there isn't anything necessarily preventing yet another postponement from occurring, but trying to read the tea leaves a bit, this postponement appears to be further unique in that it has happened well before their next scheduled appearance, whereas the other prior changes in scheduling occurred much closer to the actual date (if not on the exact date) of when they were to appear in court.

To recap the rescheduling that has occurred since video cameras captured them walking into the Surry court for the first time in their orange jumpsuits on Tuesday, January 17th:

Thursday, February 2, 2023
Monday, March 6, 2023
Monday, May 1, 2023

Monday, July 17, 2023

Will the third time/postponement be the charm? As they saying goes, "The wheels of justice turn slowly" (far too slowly for my liking!).
Thank you, @Ty2487 , for being on top of this. <3
 
I don't remember where it is, but somewhere in front of a legislative building in an African capital city is a large sculpture of a hand holding an egg. The inscription reads something along the lines of "Hold it too loosely and you will drop it; Hold it too tightly and you will crush it". This refers to maintaining just the right amount of rule and discipline.

The principle can also be applied to parenting. Steering the middle course isn't always easy and sadly, if it isn't youth out of control due to permissiveness, it can go in a heavy-handed direction with tragic results as in this case.

My surname is Wilson. In my direct line we were Ulster Scots who settled in the Pennsylvania colony and worked our way down through Kentucky, Tennessee, and eventually to Texas when my grandfather came here after WW2. There's a short, residential street in Springfield, TN named Wilson Street in honor of his father who was a popular citizen. Not that any of this is relevant, but JMO, Skyler was adopted into the wrong Wilson family. I would have loved to have welcomed him into mine.

Justice for Skyler!
 
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MAY 13, 2023
In Mount Airy, people were seeking justice for a four-year old who police say was killed by his adoptive parents.

Loved ones said they want to prevent future child abuse by empowering grandparents' rights.

[...]

During the event, Mount airy police escorted his grandparents from Truist bank through the city.

They said they want justice, and to reform the state department of health and human services.

Skylar is survived by a brother. his grandparents said his brother was also abused.

[...]
 
MAY 13, 2023
In Mount Airy, people were seeking justice for a four-year old who police say was killed by his adoptive parents.

Loved ones said they want to prevent future child abuse by empowering grandparents' rights.

[...]

During the event, Mount airy police escorted his grandparents from Truist bank through the city.

They said they want justice, and to reform the state department of health and human services.

Skylar is survived by a brother. his grandparents said his brother was also abused.

[...]
Wish I could work out how to suggest a correction. The article is fine but Skyler's name is misspelt throughout.
 
Yeah, unfortunately there's no comment section or "submit a correction" option. :confused:

Maybe you could try here? Contact us
Yeah, there's just like dozens of contacts at that link, and I have no idea which one is the right one. And I thought about randomly emailing someone about a typo and ended up having a panic attack (it's a stormy weather day in my brain). I guess I'm just glad that people are remembering Sklyer and writing articles about him at all, and hopefully, they'll edit it in the next little while and correct it.
 
Yeah, unfortunately there's no comment section or "submit a correction" option. :confused:

Maybe you could try here? Contact us
I found the right email... there's actually a link below the header of the article that I overlooked before, with a little envelope (it didn't look like a link) so I took a big deep breath and emailed them about the spelling issue. I tried to be thankful and respectful... I'm happy that anyone's keeping Skyler in the public eye.

Now I'm going to have a little collapse. Social stuff is hard when you have anxiety and autism, folks.
 
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Thanks for sharing that article, @PommyMommy, and hope you're doing better today @iamshadow21. Today happens to be Joseph Wilson's birthday -- I'll keep an eye on his social media accounts and let you all know if anything noteworthy happens over there, but I'm guessing there won't be anything of significance. Joe and Jodi still have a scheduled court appearance in the Superior Court of Surry County, North Carolina, on Monday, July 17th.
 
To recap the rescheduling that has occurred since video cameras captured them walking into the Surry court for the first time in their orange jumpsuits on Tuesday, January 17th:

Thursday, February 2, 2023
Monday, March 6, 2023
Monday, May 1, 2023

Monday, July 17, 2023

Will the third time/postponement be the charm? As they saying goes, "The wheels of justice turn slowly" (far too slowly for my liking!).
*sigh* Unfortunately for the 4th time, the Wilsons' hearing has been pushed back to September 25th (Monday). Since that July 17th date was coming up, I decided to see if it was still scheduled -- I had checked maybe 2 weeks or so before today, so this was probably a recent postponement.

All these postponements have got me wondering, what's the limit on how much longer their hearing can be delayed? This site appeared to have some good info; I'll highlight a few sections below: https://www.lawyers.com/legal-info/...getting-a-continuance-in-a-criminal-case.html

"...the law frowns on delays, especially in criminal cases. So, the requesting party must have a good [cause] when submitting a motion for continuance."

"A judge will review all the facts of the motion and case when deciding whether 'good cause' exists for a continuance. The definition of good cause varies from allowing scheduling changes for the convenience of the parties and witnesses to ensuring a fair trial where both parties have adequate time to prepare."

"The length of the continuance depends on the situation and generally can be no longer than is 'necessary.' "

"Typically, there’s no limit on the number of continuances that a defendant can request. That said, a judge won’t look favorably on repeated requests, especially if they appear to be delay tactics. Repeated requests, made without good cause, will be denied."

"Judges will typically grant defendants’ requests to postpone initial court proceedings—such as an arraignment, first appearance, or preliminary hearing—to give them time to hire a lawyer. These requests are usually granted but not indefinitely. If the judge gives the defendant a reasonable amount of time to hire a lawyer but the defendant doesn't do so, the court might go ahead and appoint the public defender or other court-appointed counsel and schedule the hearing in short order."

If the reason for the continued delays is that the Wilsons are still trying to find legal representation, I'm thinking at some point, they're going to be assigned a public defender sooner than later. Perhaps there's some other legitimate "good cause" that they've demonstrated, but based on the news article where their former office assistant provided some insight about this, I don't see what else would be causing the delays here. Let's hope that their right to a speedy trial becomes the #1 priority soon.
 
Thursday, February 2, 2023
Monday, March 6, 2023
Monday, May 1, 2023
Monday, July 17, 2023
Monday, September 25, 2023

Monday, November 27, 2023

With about 2 weeks until that 9/25/23 scheduled court appearance, there's been yet another delay (for the 5th time)... I am not sure what the exact reason(s) is (are) for the continued delays, but my hope is that the court will eventually grow tired of seeing this case continually pushed back. It's my understanding that as of August, both Jodi and Joe had obtained legal representation (Joe much quicker than Jodi), but who knows if one or both of them decided to seek new representation again. Either way, at the current rate and pattern of delays, if there's yet another postponement after this, it's going to be over a year since Skyler's tragic death, and I just find that to be beyond frustrating, and I'm being kind by using the word "frustrating" there. I have been tempted to contact the Surry County Courthouse to inquire about the delays, but I'm not sure what good that would really do.
 
4 years old? I know next to zip about the true practice of "swaddling" but I was super surprised this turned out to be a 4 year old child. No age in thread title and 4 months is what registered in my brain upon first scan. Nope, 4 YEARS old. and adopted into the family that killed him.

ETA: there's another brother. Skyler's brother also "cared for" by this pair.
Sounds like it could be the 're-birthing' technique that used to be used for reactive attachment disorder ?
 
Sounds like it could be the 're-birthing' technique that used to be used for reactive attachment disorder ?
Yep, I knew it..

Thomas was a part of Connell Watkins & Associates at the time Watkins killed Candace Newmaker. Thomas also had strong ties to the infamous Cascade Center for Family Growth (in Utah), which is now closed.

Thomas’s parenting methods are based on isolation, deprivation, humiliation, and being non-communicative with the child. She claims her methods are effective not only for treating children with “Reactive Attachment Disorder
 
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