shopgirlnc
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AB may have been depressed and/or abused. I don't know. However, I can't consider him involved just after the fact. He's Zahra's father. If he didn't know what was going on in that home and about EB's behavior towards Zahra ... he should have known. It was his duty as her father to know. Regardless of his level of involvement and when he became involved, I still believe he has a great deal of the responsibility here.
Just a question, if the genders were reversed and EB was the biological mother and AB was the stepfather, would you still be willing to give the biological parent just as much slack? Honestly, I'm simply curious. It's not a judgement.
None of us know the answers yet to exactly who was involved in what & when. I'm speculating just like everyone else. It's just my opinion. I respect everyone's opinion here because I could very well be wrong.
If I've said something out of line, please flag for removal. Sorry for rambling, this case just has me very upset.
I agree....I am equally frustrated. What is also frustrating is that EB's family is buddying up with AB! So what if they think he is innocent.....he still had responsibility as her father to protect her. This same family says they witnessed abuse of ZB and called DSS.....so how can they give AB a free ride on all of these accusations! JMO