"Blame and shame" is prevalent in today's society, defence lawyer Ron Mansfield tells the jury in his opening address.
He tells the jury it guides us in the way we live our lives, to keep us within the definition of what is "normal", a definition which is subjective, he says.
But if anything, the younger generation does not adhere to this “pressure on us to appear normal”, and they can teach us about their refusal to accept these old concepts, Mansfield says.
Especially so, they are much more prepared to experiment with their sexuality within the confines of consent, he says.
"We all have different views on religion, politics, social standing and morals, this is what makes us diverse as a country," he continues.
"In this trial, if we are not careful, our own views will distract from the focus you need to keep steadfast too - whether there has been a criminal wrong," he tells the jury.
"Within the confines of consent, people should be free to be who they are and to be intimate with each other how they choose to be," he said.
“Whether you like it, or whether you condone it - is irrelevant.”
“We are so caught up in the concept of being normal so we are not blamed or shamed, we let our behaviour be influenced by that because of a fear of the impact that would have on our, or someone we love's, reputation.
He says this is especially the case in matters concerning the bedroom.
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