My feeling is that she is staying away by choice, but is with someone who should know better, i.e older, over eighteen or even twenty-one. I do not get the feeling she is being held against her will. JMO
It would give a general area to keep eyes peeled. Fact is, I've seen people holding a picture of someone who walks right by them and they miss it, even if the only alteration in the person's appearance is their clothing.
And then who this person is. Does she like anime? That's a whole culture of people to look for her. Does she have a lisp? A tattoo? If she were a criminal and they wanted to find her they'd release more information, and that's how criminals get found. What about her makes her any different or stand out from the 4.5 million other teenage girls? Brown hair...I'm not a brain when it comes to hiding out but the first thing I'd expect is a haircut and a change in hair color. So really all the public has to go on is where she isn't, 86 village way in north conway, nh.
I think every press conf is carefully constructed to get someone to talk, but they aren't talking and in the meantime the clock is ticking.
With the news from today's press conference it appears that Abby's abductor was not a random stranger but someone she knew. She may have run away but it seems that if she did she had the help of an adult who is not her parent.
I am wondering who could this person be? I am thinking it would be someone she has had contact with more than once in her life. Seems like investigators would be able to figure out where she had been in recent months, who she might have met and investigated them.
A 14 year old's circle should be smaller than a 16 year olds.
Surely everyone they can think to investigate has been checked out.
So, who?
Who would a 14 year old girl accept a ride from? Or ask for help in running away?
I was initially heartened at first too, until I realized if the letter is authentic and it was written on 10/22 all we know is that she was alive up to that date. I'm holding out hope, but the flame is flickering and the candle is melting down.
Truth is stranger than fiction, but it is because Fiction is obliged to stick to possibilities; Truth isn't. -- mark twain.
Put simply I want the truth and all the details that even might 'hinder the investigation".
I care about the young and old women who are being unanswered for-for too many years.
Politics are a cog in the wheel of truth in many cases-JMO
To believe and accept the status quo is like being lead to the saughter house. You don't know where your going or why.
How can anyone possibly be happy with what is presented if it's less than the facts?
It's time to change the way missing persons and abductions are handled. the current process is not working--time to regroup.
Stay safe Abby if you can. My opinions only with the greatest respect for LE, Abby and family--Bring em home.
It would give a general area to keep eyes peeled. Fact is, I've seen people holding a picture of someone who walks right by them and they miss it, even if the only alteration in the person's appearance is their clothing.
And then who this person is. Does she like anime? That's a whole culture of people to look for her. Does she have a lisp? A tattoo? If she were a criminal and they wanted to find her they'd release more information, and that's how criminals get found. What about her makes her any different or stand out from the 4.5 million other teenage girls? Brown hair...I'm not a brain when it comes to hiding out but the first thing I'd expect is a haircut and a change in hair color. So really all the public has to go on is where she isn't, 86 village way in north conway, nh.
I think every press conf is carefully constructed to get someone to talk, but they aren't talking and in the meantime the clock is ticking.
It was sent to a PO box that did not get checked daily, not to her mom's house.
I am left to wonder who was the older "boy" she was in communicating with on the web and was he an actual boy or just a cleverly disguised adult male with ulterior motives?
This case is very frustrating on that topic because we have only heard there was such a "boy" and we have never heard word one about whether that "boy" was identified and cleared by LE.
I am a veteran case follower by now and the silence from LE and lack of detail, while maddening, is not unusual to me anymore. I have seen in past cases and will no doubt continue to see it in future ones. Each case is just as frustrating as the last, one never gets used to it that frustration. One become less surprised by it, but never less frustrated by it. So if Abby's is the first case you have followed, just know, I feel your frustration, I feel it. Most veterans do. But it is not unusual. If you have a minute, during a lull of posting or new info to digest in Abby's case, I strongly encourage you to poke about in other missing children cases, especially involving teens.
You will be shocked at how very many there are, and how very quiet it becomes after the initial rush of news/leads. IF the missing child even gets a blip on the radar in the first place. So may do not.
I am not shocked by the loss of interest or warm or cold cases as we know there are so many.
frustration is normal for folks and so are half truths, unfortunately.
As a person who knows every face and every name and every instance in NH and VT+ of abductid, attempted and the missing, I am not shocked.
I wait for the next missing. because I know it's inevitable, but I wish politicians et al would step up and bring us all out of the rabbit hole.
Bring em home-all jmo:banghead:
I am not shocked by the loss of interest or warm or cold cases as we know there are so many.
frustration is normal for folks and so are half truths, unfortunately.
As a person who knows every face and every name and every instance in NH and VT+ of abductid, attempted and the missing, I am not shocked.
I wait for the next missing. because I know it's inevitable, but I wish politicians et al would step up and bring us all out of the rabbit hole.
Bring em home-all jmo:banghead:
Why would anyone ever bother to date a letter of this nature if they are in hiding?
To try to show proof of life at a certain date.