Roselvr
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He's looking for someone else to blame.
The murderers were to blame. It's over. He needs to grieve the loss of his daughter. He still hasn't done that. He really needs some professional help. IMO all if this is avoidance.
Quoted for truth.
Even if someone regularly checked in with her; it wouldn't change the fact she was killed but they would have known something was wrong a lot sooner. When my daughter was that young I also knew where she was going. She used to call me when she got there as well as when she left. The same went if she was going to another friend when she left the 1st one.