This has to be Charlotte
http://www.doenetwork.org/cases/20ufnj.html
Here is why…
The description completely fits;age, height, weight, etc…
and the most important part of the description is:
"Dentals: Available. Decedent had significant tooth decay. Gap in the upper central incisors."
Look at the obit photo for her sister LaNette.
http://www.oconnellfuneralhomes.com/obit.php?id=466
I'm no forensic scientist, but I do know that SOME siblings have similar teeth. I'm not saying this is an exact science… but LaNette clearly has a gap in the upper central incisors. It could have been a hereditary trait.
The final piece that makes this all fit, is that Charlotte went to stay with her sister/husband on an Army base; which has been identified as Ft. Monmouth.
These doe remains were found 24-26 minutes away, which was a 10 mile drive down route 36 from Ft. Monmouth.
My working theory is that something happened to Charlotte while in the care of Carole and Alvin.
Someone knew the area extremely well, and knew that nobody would trek back into the heavily wooded area off route 36 by the beaches. Route 36 is very accessible from Ft. Monmouth. Someone dropped her bags off to throw off the trail, and she never got on that plane.
Description and time of death fitting, a doe with similar teeth to a sibling, proximity to last known location; too many coincidences for it to not be her.
I think the reason this hasn't been put together was the fact that Charlotte wasn't listed as a missing person on databases at the right time. There seems to be a lot of confusion with her case, because it seems as if the family wasn't too interested in finding out the details. Probably because finding out the truth would incriminate a family member when she was likely a 'problem child' for a step father and a mother on her 3rd marriage.
Also, a girl being murdered on an Army base isn't the best PR a military instillation would want, it was probably picked up and put down quickly. This would explain vanishing police reports and the whole 'let the past be the past' treatment some sleuths have gotten.
I don't think this doe has had Charlottes familial DNA tested, someone should have that ordered; I'm betting its a match.