Found Deceased NJ - Mark Schlegel, 57, Oradell, 13 Aug 2017

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Songbird... you too have been on my heart... in whatever manner mark died, it has been terribly emotionally painful- especially here for you- and I'm so sorry about that. To avoid this keeping you really down, try to allow this to continue to stir up good and nurturing and proactive actions and thoughts in yourself- like reaching out to your friends and making other connections. Even if your friends don't respond, keep letting them know you care cause they need to hear it!!! We all do, in this tech crazed busybusy world, we all need to remember to focus on what really matters- our hearts.... especially if we want to combat depression and suicide!!!!!
 
Can't seem to find the article that said "apparent suicide" anymore. I'm telling you this was not a suicide. It was maybe staged to look like it but it wasn't. That's what my gut is telling me can't help it. It's not denial it's just my gut.
 
Hi Songbird,
Can you share what makes you think it was staged/ not a suicide? I don't know anything about him, except what I have read, but I am curious about your feelings since you seem to have more insight.
 
Jmo it is not easy to stage a suicide when there is no sign of trauma. Imo, usually staged suicides are gun shot victims or another method common to suicide. It is unlikely, imo, that he was stuffed with pills, for example, and dropped off to die. If it turns out he did die of prescription meds, I believe they can tell if they were crushed to a powder first, as if put into a drink. I think it will be a few months before we hear more. Jmo
 
Can't seem to find the article that said "apparent suicide" anymore. I'm telling you this was not a suicide. It was maybe staged to look like it but it wasn't. That's what my gut is telling me can't help it. It's not denial it's just my gut.
Is the local community aware of any issues with Mark that could have led to suicide or distress? In other words, if family and friends continue with the mantra that he was happy and had a perfect life, I'd be more inclined to suspect foul play. I do think it is rare, outside of fiction novels, to see a staged non-violent suicide.
 
He was just on the Emmy memorial slideshow.

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I still think about this case and wonder why? Does anyone have any new insights?

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I still think about this case and wonder why? Does anyone have any new insights?

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I still think about it too and heard that the wife thinks he just snapped


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