humanracer
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I might sound horribly judgemental here but why was a person with the mental ability of five years old left with a baby? or was this kind of thing normal in the 80's?
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I might sound horribly judgemental here but why was a person with the mental ability of five years old left with a baby? or was this kind of thing normal in the 80's?
Thank you, I should have known this, probably did on some level but some of these cases effect me so emotionally that I throw all common sense out the window. :blushing:
I think the chance of Wanda's ex doing something altruistic is pretty slim, remember this is a man who married a severely disabled woman and had two children with her who were removed from their care. If he said he wanted to trade her baby for drugs, I suspect that's exactly what he wanted to do. I do wonder if Wanda agreed to this and then handed over Melissa instead, but I find it odd that with all her changing stories Wanda never gave this version of the event to LE.
If she had the mental capacity of a 4-5 year old, wouldn't her first story come closer to being the truth before alot of questioning and getting confused?
Oh, I don't think the ex was altruistic. I have a strong suspicion that he knew he could not get custody of his children back the legal way. But even abusive, neglectful parents often think they love their children and want custody of them.
As it seems that Wanda has a repeated history of violence toward babies -- perhaps she panics or gets upset when they cry or otherwise infringe upon her -- I hate to say that I doubt Melissa is still alive.
Typically, when babies vanish, I always think there's a strong possibility someone who couldn't have their own took them to raise, or perhaps sold them to another childless couple. But I just don't think so here.
She wasn't left alone with the baby. The McGuinns had agreed to take her into their home to try to teach her how to care for her own baby.
She picked up little Melissa and took her out of the house. She came back 8 minutes later without Melissa and told many different stories about what happened. Investigators determined that Wanda would say anything she thought the person questioning her wanted to hear.
I don't think the McGuinns did anything wrong. They sound like a couple with big hearts who wanted to help someone who was definitely in need of much help. I've received so much help in my own life, what would it make me to judge anyone who offers to help others? No one is omniscient.
Depends on how the questioning was conducted. There have been many cases of young children giving misleading or impossible stories from the beginning because they were questioned by someone who was not aware of the special issues that involve getting information from children.
Hindsight being 20/20 and all, it's obvious now that LE should have brought in a qualified specialist in questioning small children to question Wanda. But they couldn't know what they didn't know until they learned it, if you see what I mean. And I am sure they were very aware of the clock ticking, ticking, ticking...
Here is a video I made using the time I met with Melissa's mom. Please help share this to try and get new attention. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6VJjqDa4GPM&feature=youtu.be
Watching this now.Here is a video I made using the time I met with Melissa's mom. Please help share this to try and get new attention. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6VJjqDa4GPM&feature=youtu.be
In a stroke of luck, the investigators actually have a sample of Melissa's DNA: the hospital where she was born kept her newborn blood sample. So if they find Melissa, there will be no problem confirming her real identity.
So far four women in their mid-20s matching Melissa's description have been tested. Three of them were not a match. Detectives are awaiting DNA results on the fourth. House waits patiently for news of her daughter and never stops searching.
"There's not a young lady that I've walked past that I don't look and wonder," she said. "I feel one of these days, I'm going to walk up and actually look at myself, just younger. And it's going to be her."