NV NV - Steven T. Koecher, 30, Henderson, 13 Dec 2009 - # 2

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Guys - I want to mention something I told Naegle earlier. Our weather has been very mild for the majority of the past few weeks. This week was mostly mid-60's and sunny. But it sounds like we're in for a lot of rain next week. That, coupled with the fact that if this person is Steven and he is experiencing any type of mentally compromising situation, he needs to be off the streets ASAP.

It sad. They all need to be off the streets Fairy. If this is Steven, something is terribly, terribly, wrong. It appears he doesn't want to even ask someone for help. Not a shelter, not LE, not the church or even family. There is something mentally or physiologically wrong. If not, then I can only think that he may have gotten himself into something he is ashamed to admit to and may think he deserves no help--taking the brunt of the responsibility and trying to survive and figure his way out of it. LE needs to check this out. This has been going on for a while....something has taken his priorities like paying the rent away from him---even tho he had the money to do so.
If you look at the timeline...it looks like everything with his actions were somewhat normal until the 8th that we know of--with the exception of not paying the rent--correct? Why wasn't he working on those days? Did he lose employment. I've always wondered why the church did not help him find employment? Sorry, but where is the helping of each brother here? Is it just me? Something is eating at this man's soul people, and I do think there were red flags for a long time.
 
I believe it has been varified he there were no texts or calls after the last one from his bishop. So...he was not texting and his phone did not have email or the internet.

I tend to agree with you. Unless he had another prepaid phone which I also doubt. Maybe he was just looking at the address on a piece of paper or he was reading something else. I think he's looking at something in his hand. Otherwise why wouldnt you just carry the notebook in your hand? Like I said before. I dont think this gets us any closer to finding him just an observation. I also tend not to believe that it is Steven showing up at the IHOP. I hope it is and that he is found and he can be helped but I dont think that it is. Steven is a very average looking guy. By average I mean he doesnt have any features that jump out at you like a big nose, freckles, or moles. How great would it be though if it is him and this all ends well.
 
Good Evening Everyone! I wanted to share this with all of you. I'm sure you've seen or read it before. However, maybe you haven't and could find It is refreshing to take a break for a few minutes. I am so hoping that man at IHOP isn't Steven. I hope the Brazil theory or the SP theory is right. And he will come home safe and sound. :praying:


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Is the Steve Koecher mentioned in this article, "our" Steve Koecher?

"The most popular KUTE show was shut down last week after the DJs hosting it vandalized the studio and violated several FCC regulations, including calling a sex hotline on air.
On Feb. 12, Alex Cook received a voicemail message on his phone from Steve Koecher, KUTE chief announcer." (UofU News Story),

Note that Steven did list KUTE on his LinkedIn profile as something he did while in college, but this story is from Feb 19, 2007.
 
He was looking down and then once the car passed he looked up from what I see. I want this to be the case. I want him to be hiding his face b/c he was leaving and he is still alive.

The only other reason he would hide his face, like I think I observed, would be b/c he was doing something he did not want anyone to be able to place him doing or he was embarrassed. But he seems to be walking with too much "confidence" to be embarrassed about anything.
 
Is the Steve Koecher mentioned in this article, "our" Steve Koecher?

"The most popular KUTE show was shut down last week after the DJs hosting it vandalized the studio and violated several FCC regulations, including calling a sex hotline on air.
On Feb. 12, Alex Cook received a voicemail message on his phone from Steve Koecher, KUTE chief announcer." (UofU News Story),

Note that Steven did list KUTE on his LinkedIn profile as something he did while in college, but this story is from Feb 19, 2007.

I read that too. You're right on everything you posted. That's a very good question?
 
If this is Steven then LE needs to be contacted ASAP. Who is going to do it or who should do it?
 
Is the Steve Koecher mentioned in this article, "our" Steve Koecher?

"The most popular KUTE show was shut down last week after the DJs hosting it vandalized the studio and violated several FCC regulations, including calling a sex hotline on air.
On Feb. 12, Alex Cook received a voicemail message on his phone from Steve Koecher, KUTE chief announcer." (UofU News Story),

Note that Steven did list KUTE on his LinkedIn profile as something he did while in college, but this story is from Feb 19, 2007.

Quite a coicidence. But what a poorly written story! I don't really even understand the reference to Steven Koecher. What voice mail? What does that have to do with anything else in the story?

It's quite possibly past my bedtime...
 
If this is Steven then LE needs to be contacted ASAP. Who is going to do it or who should do it?

Why? What are you are seeing here that I'm not? This was nearly 3 years ago and Steven is barely mentioned.

What am I missing??????
 
I'm so grateful that Fairy is there & was able to go look into this. Thanks.
Okay - I'm inclined to believe that it is Steven (hoping,Praying that it is). The reason why is that if it is him - then we at least know an area to look in (Vegas/Henderson is HUGE so many places). Sometimes I think when life gets overwhelming & someone hits their breaking point they may look for a way to kind of start all over again - leave everything behind & try to rebuild from scratch.
I'm having a hard time wrapping my mind around all my thoughts tonight - perhaps I have been thinking & obsessing over this too much - I can't help it.
So many thoughts & theories sometimes it is hard to share b/c I don't know how to articulate them. Okay here goes the rambling.
what if he did have an appt. that day on Evening Lights - what if something in that appt. what ever kind of appt. that may have been pushed him over the edge in someway & he has lost touch with things for a time. just thinking out loud
Also they said in IHOP the guy coming in looks thinner - well if it is him it has been a while now very possible to loose weight quickly when your normal routine & eating habits have changed.
So many thoughts - not use to voiceing them out loud I hope my ramblings make sense
 
Why? What are you are seeing here that I'm not? This was nearly 3 years ago and Steven is barely mentioned.

What am I missing??????

Yep it getting way to late for all of us... That was a statement i made out of context of the article. it was in regard to him being at the IHOP but my statement was kind of misplaced...
 
Why? What are you are seeing here that I'm not? This was nearly 3 years ago and Steven is barely mentioned.

What am I missing??????


I agree with you.


Steven (if it was him) was the one who called the DJs and told them their show was being shut down.

It's a non-issue. jmo
 
It sad. They all need to be off the streets Fairy. If this is Steven, something is terribly, terribly, wrong. It appears he doesn't want to even ask someone for help. Not a shelter, not LE, not the church or even family. There is something mentally or physiologically wrong. If not, then I can only think that he may have gotten himself into something he is ashamed to admit to and may think he deserves no help--taking the brunt of the responsibility and trying to survive and figure his way out of it. LE needs to check this out. This has been going on for a while....something has taken his priorities like paying the rent away from him---even tho he had the money to do so.
If you look at the timeline...it looks like everything with his actions were somewhat normal until the 8th that we know of--with the exception of not paying the rent--correct? Why wasn't he working on those days? Did he lose employment. I've always wondered why the church did not help him find employment? Sorry, but where is the helping of each brother here? Is it just me? Something is eating at this man's soul people, and I do think there were red flags for a long time.

IF THIS IS STEVEN, I agree completely Holly about his current mental state. He is in a complete emotional void.

I hope they found him in this overnight period because I am not sure how much longer he can just wander without a home, job or love or tenderness. And I hope that whatever family member sees him first gives Steven the biggest hug he has ever received because he is going to need it as the first step of a long journey to patch up this huge divide with the family.
 
I hope LE and p.i.'s are out scouring the area around IHOP.
I hope Steven's poster will be placed everywhere in that area.

What are the chances of bus drivers having his poster?
If they see Steven, they could call in to their dispatcher
or call the police.
I think LE or family would have to ask the bus company
owner if they could do this.

Maybe put Steven's missing person flyer under the windshield
wipers on every employee car in the IHOP area.

Nothing to lose by family taking this route.
Steven's been missing over one month.
 
Why? What are you are seeing here that I'm not? This was nearly 3 years ago and Steven is barely mentioned.

What am I missing??????

Besides being the only news story with his name in it, before he disappeared?
I saw a few things in it:

1 - Another job not listed on his LinkedIn resume. Even if it's a volunteer/club
thing, that he's still doing two years after graduation, it's important experience because he was the lead, obviously in charge.

2 - His (rightful) actions caused problems for someone else...and he's the first person they mentioned.

3 - It resulted in the most popular radio show on the college radio station, being shut down.

4 - Nonprotective coworkers to interview.
 
LostAtSea --I've been looking at the map you created....and something struck me.

Maybe it's insignificant, but Stephen travels long distances, yet arrives at 11am or 12pm. Ruby Valley, Henderson....and the hour difference may depend on whether he set his watch or not, when he passes a time change.

IF it's him at IHOP, and he's arriving during graveyard shift, it'd be interesting to find out if he gets there at 11pm or 12am.

You're better at thinking outside the box at I am. Ideas?
Where could he be, when he's not "arrived"?
 
:angel:

I've been looking for a picture of Steven that wasn't just full-face, but showed him from the side....and found one here: http://snurl.com/u41hy [www_facebook_com]. Buit it's hard to see, being in the shadows.

Do you think anyone would mind if "we" (ie, YOU, one of our supremely-talented graphic artists) took that image at brightened it a bit?

I think that picture is the closest to what Steven actually looks like.

Things are almost too quiet this morning.
I don't know if everyone else is at church, or if there's news brewing.
 
:angel:

I've been looking for a picture of Steven that wasn't just full-face, but showed him from the side....and found one here: http://snurl.com/u41hy [www_facebook_com]. Buit it's hard to see, being in the shadows.

Do you think anyone would mind if "we" (ie, YOU, one of our supremely-talented graphic artists) took that image at brightened it a bit?

I think that picture is the closest to what Steven actually looks like.

Things are almost too quiet this morning.
I don't know if everyone else is at church, or if there's news brewing.

I suspect the lack of word from Naegle is because the family made a bee line to Vegas to check this out.
 
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